06/18/2026
So many women are taught to look for hot flashes as “the sign” of perimenopause.
But according to Andrea Donsky’s research shared in Nourishing Menopause, after surveying over 5,200 women, hot flashes came in at #10 on the list of most common symptoms.
The top reported symptoms were things like:
Fatigue, exhaustion, and feeling tired all the time
Brain fog
Sleep issues
Memory lapses or forgetfulness
Anxiety
Low libido
Lack of concentration
Joint pain
Lack of focus
Hot flashes
So if you are in your late 30s or 40s and noticing that your energy, sleep, mood, memory, focus, cycle, digestion, or body feels different…
You are not being dramatic.
Your body may be communicating through more than one system.
Perimenopause is a natural biological transition, but that does not mean we have to white-knuckle our way through it.
This is a season where we need to know our bodies differently.
Understand what is shifting.
Support our nutrition.
Support our stress response.
Support our sleep.
Support our digestion.
Support our mind and body through the transition and beyond.
Not from fear.
From awareness.
Because aging well is not about ignoring what your body is saying.
It is about learning how to support it well.
And honestly, I think that is also how we become a better example for our daughters.
If this feels familiar, send me a message. You do not have to figure it all out alone.