Anita The Match Maker

11/11/2020

09/16/2020

Sending love and prayers, keep safe ❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

08/23/2020

https://www.desibuzzcanada.com/post/bollywood-turns-bullywood-sushant-singh-rajputs-tragic-death-has-put-everyone-on-notice

08/18/2020

Happy Birthday ❤️❤️

08/18/2020

Happy Birthday My Love❤️🎂

08/18/2020

Please help SSR get Justice 🙏🏼🙏🏼😢

08/08/2020

On August 7, 1994 at 12:36 am, we were blessed with our first son Steven Sharma.
We can not believe he is 26 year old.
This little boy, taking him to preschool, all the way to high school. Than later finding out in university he does not need his mothers hand anymore. He has become a strong independent man and can manage to survive in the real world. I guess our lectures and worries made him the man who he is today.
Some days you look back and think how the hell life pasted you bye. It is great when you child graduate’s from university and than settles into his career job.
But inside you are so sad because you wished they were the little child who needed your hand to walk up the stairs. When I pass a playground and remember the times my boys played on the swings and still can imagine them on it. I bet my boys can not even imagine themselves on that swing. I guess a crazy mom like myself still pictures them on that swing. I know we want our children to grow up and become strong independent men but than we see ourselves growing old too. Than we realize we might not have much time to be with them.
Steven is a funny, kind, sensible and sometimes emotional human being. He fears God and knows to live life by Karma. Treats everyone with love and respect and knows life is to short.
Thank you Shivji’s for blessing me with Steven. I hope I made your proud.
Happy birthdays to my baby, even though he says he is not a baby.
🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🎂

07/29/2020

There is a show on Netflix....Indian Matchmaker.
I did watch the whole episode with my grown up boys. They were actually saying the show makes us Indians look so bad.
I have been hearing from so many people that are so mad and asking for my opinion because I am a matchmaker. What I thought of the show.

India matchmaker “Sima” was actually saying things that is actually happening in real time.
Sima is the real old generation on how to arrange marriages.

I do not arrange marriages because I believe they need to date and actually should be living together before marriage.
Marriage is a joke now because to many divorces are happening. Families only think about what society will say and if there child is not married than they have not done there duty as a parent.
So they rather have there child just get married. This leads there child to be in an unhappy marriage or divorce.

I know I do lecture the clients, please do not get married for the society or for the hell of getting married. Marriage is not only about the production of the wedding.
I wish Marriage counselling was provided by the government and mandatory before anyone gets married, atleast this will prevent future divorces.

Second, I do not get approved by many parents because I believe couples after marriage should be living on there own. Independent living is so important for newlyweds. They need to know how to survive on there own as a couple.
Families are the biggest cause to start fights between the newlyweds. Sad but this leads to divorce.
This never makes sense to me when parents work so hard and spend so much money for there child’s wedding. Than some parents and there families get involved in there child’s marriage just to destroy it.

Third...
What Sima said on the indian matchmaker show is exactly what I get in Reality.
I get many clients asking, more like requesting....
1).. skinny ladies
2)..light skin complexion
3)..educated
4)..men that are very financial stable.
5)..men need to be good looking
6)..women need to be good looking
7)..men that are at least 5’10 and up is a must
Average men height is 5’7

“Than there is the caste system”

These are some of the things I d

07/29/2020

Challenge Accepted ❤️❤️

We as women take this challenge because we need to support each other. We need to teach our children that free speech is important but silent ways of showing support can make an impact.
The Covid-19 shows us that we need to stay home to keep others safe. But social media gives us a platform where we all can show love for each other by supporting each other.
This way we respect each other’s space and keeping everyone safe.❤️❤️🙏🏼

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07/28/2020