07/08/2025
I have a confession to make.
I used to resist reading the feedback question on my clients’ post-session forms. Part of me genuinely wanted to know how to improve the sessions, but another part of me was afraid.
Afraid that constructive criticism would reinforce an old story I had carried for years:
that I was not good enough.
In the early days, that fear ran deep.
I even stepped away from coaching at one point because one client did not get the results I had hoped for and they expected. I overlooked the 20-plus people who experienced extraordinary growth and instead focused on “the one.” I let it define my capabilities and made it mean I was not meant for this work.
By that point, I had already done over 15 years of deep personal work, but that moment revealed something crucial.
No matter how far along we are, there is always another layer.
Like many of my clients, I had to confront the stories still lurking beneath the surface.
Now, I welcome feedback — not just as a tool for improvement, but as a reflection of the depth of the work itself.
In a recent form (below), I was not expecting the answer I received.
It was deeply affirming.
What she described captured the essence of this work:
Wading through internal messiness.
Moving past subconscious sabotage.
Being met with presence, clarity, and care.
Every client brings something unique —
their lived experience, their resistance, their brilliance.
And I am here for all of it.
If you have been doing the work and showing up for others, yet something in you still feels lost or overlooked, it might be time for a different kind of support.
Support that honors both your ambition and the parts of you that rarely get seen.
Let’s talk.
I would be honored to walk beside you.
