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Couples Ignite the Fire – Workshops and programs designed to engage you and your spouse on a path

Couples Ignite the Fire – Workshops and programs designed to engage you and your spouse on a path to a healthier and happier relationship using interactive

05/15/2026

30 Years Later, We’re Still Each Other’s Favorite Date:

After 30 years of marriage, keeping the fun and romance alive didn't just happen naturally. We have to be intentional about taking time to nurture ourselves, our marriage, and our friendship.
God is truly faithful.

05/14/2026

Complete Chemistry, Still Volatile

05/09/2026

Happy Anniversary, babe.
You are my forever, until God says otherwise. Thank you for everything you do for me. Your quiet spirit and deep awareness of who I am allow you to keep me balanced whenever I lose perspective.
Thank you for supporting my dreams and my passion for helping couples. Thank you for your tireless hard work in providing for our family, and for always making room in your heart to forgive me when I disrupt our rhythm.
We have navigated our share of rough patches, but I know our connection will continue to see us through. Thank you for being a God-fearing man. God sees your heart and your gentle spirit; you truly reflect His image in the way you love.
Today, I celebrate us—a love and a bond that will never be broken.

05/08/2026

The Great Wall of Compromise

05/02/2026

The Remodel Riot

04/30/2026

Emotional Intimacy

Song of Solomon 2:16
I am my beloved’s, is surrendering one self to your spouse and, "My beloved is mine, " equates to complete security and trust that one's heart is safe in their partner's hands.

Exercise:
During our last 'storm'—whether it was stress, grief, or a disagreement—did we turn toward each other for safety, or did we withdraw into ourselves?
A Couple That Plays Together Stays Together

04/24/2026

Emotional Intimacy
Emotional intimacy is the intentional heart of a relationship. It is the moment you choose to move from a thought to a gesture. Taking just 10 minutes to share a cup of tea or coffee sends a powerful message: "I see you."
What is one small act of kindness you can do for each other that would make the biggest difference in your marriage?

04/16/2026

“Intimacy is “into-me-see.” I am going to talk to you, my beloved, and I am going to share with you my most prized possessions, which are no longer my dowry and the fruit of my womb but my hopes, my aspirations, my fears, my longings, my feelings—in other words, my inner life. And you, my beloved, will give me eye contact. No scrolling while I bare my soul. I need to feel your empathy and validation. My significance depends on it.” -Esther Perel

04/13/2026

The intimacy of listening.

The intimacy of never letting your partner sleep with a broken heart at night.

The intimacy of never letting your frustration out on someone who is only there to be with you.

Emotional intimacy is so underrated and so important.

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04/11/2026

Respectfully Raw:
The Art of Emotional Intimacy
Active listening isn’t just a skill; it’s the secret sauce for building a deep, unshakable connection.

When you truly listen, you aren't just hearing words—you’re honoring a soul. 👩🏻‍🤝‍👨🏽
Here is how to actually show up:
1. Maintain Eye Contact
Eye contact is everything. It transforms a casual chat into a meaningful exchange and makes your partner feel truly seen and validated.
2. Eliminate Distractions
Put everything on pause. If your spouse is talking and you’re scrolling through your phone or multitasking, you’re sending the message that they are second priority. Stop what you’re doing for a few minutes and give them your full attention.
3. Refrain from Interruption 🤫
This is the hardest part for most of us. When your spouse is speaking, just listen. Don't feel the need to "fix" it or insert your opinion immediately. Even if you disagree, hold your thoughts until they’ve finished their point.
4. Summarize for Clarity
Once they’ve finished, respond by summarizing what you heard.
“So, what I’m hearing is that you felt overwhelmed when... am I getting that right?” This ensures you’re both on the same page and prevents unnecessary arguments.
5. The Heart Check-In
After they’ve shared, check in on their emotional state. Ask if they’re okay and if they are ready for you to share your perspective. When you do speak, be sensitive. This isn't about being "right"—it’s about being connected. No judgment allowed.
6. Ask Open-Ended Questions
Keep the door open. Use questions that require more than a "yes" or "no."
• Example: "How can I best support you right now?"

⚡ The "Straight Face" Challenge
Playful Exercise: Try to have a serious heart-to-heart 💕 or listen to each other’s day while maintaining a completely straight face.
The Rule: No laughing! 🤣 (It’s harder than it looks, but it forces you to focus intensely on your partner's face.)

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