08/11/2021
"If you're going to tell me to get the rice cooked, chicken on the stove, and the tea kettle ready by the time you get home from work then I have to learn how to swim in the deep end."
I remember requesting this from my Father at age of 9. The very next week, he signed me up at a gym... but he said that I will be too scared, "you will have to drown to swim back up if you want to learn fast and I won't help when you ask for help". This guy wasn't joking! He threw a brick of 10 kg in the deep end and instructed me to bring it back up by imagining that 15 seconds of holding my breath is kind of like 3 seconds and once I pick the brick up then all I had to do is keep imagining that it'has only been 3 seconds. "Dogs even know how to swim so you can too" (*Sigh* how motivataional!).
That's the way I learned to swim by facing my fears that I might drown and nobody is going to save me.
Abobe all, truely to win in life is to be coachable and find a solution to a problem!
My solution to the problem of getting a meal ready was to learn something else I enjoyed!
"๐๐ก๐๐ญ'๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐ค ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ฅ๐๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐๐ฅ?"