Divine Intervention Matchmaking

06/17/2026

Put Your Phone Away

One of the quickest ways to ruin a first date?

Checking your phone.

A first date is about getting to know the person sitting across from you—not catching up on texts, scrolling social media, or seeing who else is messaging.

When you're looking at your phone, you're sending a message, whether you mean to or not:

"Something else has my attention."

People want to feel seen, heard, and valued.

The only exception? A genuine work, family, or friend emergency. If you're expecting an important call or message, let your date know at the beginning and apologize in advance if you need to check your phone.

Want to make a great first impression?

Put your phone on silent.

Keep it out of sight.

Stay present.

Be curious.

The best connections aren't built on your phone.

They're built with the person in front of you.

What's your biggest first-date pet peeve?

06/15/2026

"People tell me I look 10 years younger."

As matchmakers, we hear this all the time.

And to be fair, many people today really are healthier, more active, and more youthful than previous generations.

But here's the question:

If almost everyone thinks they look younger than they are... who is actually looking their age?😄

One of the biggest challenges we see in dating isn't age itself.

It's the gap between how people see themselves and how they evaluate potential partners.

The people who have the most success aren't usually the ones chasing a number.

They're the ones focused on compatibility, lifestyle, attraction, values, and building a great relationship.

Our latest blog explores why so many of us feel younger than our chronological age — and why it matters more than you might think when it comes to dating.

Read it here:
https://www.divinematchmaking.com/blog/why-everyone-thinks-they-look-younger-than-they-are-and-why-it-matters-in-dating/

Do you think most people accurately judge where they fit in the dating market? Let us know in comments.

One of the most common things we hear as a matchmaking business —especially from people over 40—is: “People tell me I look 10 years younger.” Sometimes it’s 15 years younger. Occasionally it’s 20. And to be fair, many people today do look younger and live differently than previous genera...

06/12/2026

Vancouver ladies, we need your help.

We’re looking outside our network to find someone exceptional for one of our clients.

We’re searching for one remarkable woman to meet a highly sought-after Vancouver professional in his 40s.

He’s tall, successful, family-oriented, active, well-travelled, and genuinely looking for a lasting relationship. He’s built a great life, wants children, and is ready to meet the right partner.

We’re looking for a woman in her 30s who is confident, kind, emotionally mature, and relationship-minded. Someone who values family, communicates well, and is ready for a meaningful partnership.

Think you may be a fit? DM us and tell us a little about yourself.

If there appears to be potential, we’ll invite you to complete a confidential profile so we can properly assess for mutual fit before making any introduction.

06/09/2026

GHOSTING IS WEAK

Ghosting isn't the easy way out. It's the cowardly way out.

If you've exchanged messages, had a phone call, or gone on a date, disappearing without a word shows a lack of courage and respect.

You don't have to write a long explanation.

You don't have to defend your decision.

But you can take 30 seconds to let someone know where they stand.

Something as simple as:

"I've enjoyed getting to know you, but I don't feel we're the right fit. I wish you all the best."

That's called being an adult.

Most people can handle rejection.

What they struggle with is being left wondering.

Instead of ghosting:

Be honest
Be direct
Set clear boundaries
Communicate in a timely manner
Treat people the way you'd want to be treated

And yes, there are exceptions. If someone is abusive, threatening, or makes you feel unsafe, you don't owe them a response.

But in most dating situations?

Ghosting is weak.

Agree or disagree?

06/04/2026

According to research from the Kinsey Institute, discussed by Dr. Justin Garcia with Matchmaker Maria, more than 70% of singles reported becoming attracted to someone they didn't initially think they would be attracted to.

Think about that.

More than 70%.

This isn't just a dating opinion. It's backed by social science.

And after nearly 20 years as a matchmaker, I can tell you I see this happen all the time.

One of the biggest mistakes singles make is becoming too attached to their "type."

A certain look.

A certain height.

A certain profession.

A certain personality.

They become so focused on finding the person they've imagined in their head that they overlook people with genuine relationship potential.

Some of the strongest couples I've worked with were not each other's typical type.

They didn't walk away from the first date talking about fireworks.

They walked away curious enough to have a second date.

Then attraction grew.

Then trust.

Then connection.

The qualities that build lasting relationships are often different from the qualities that create instant chemistry.

Kindness.

Character.

Emotional intelligence.

Shared values.

Consistency.

Compatibility.

The person you're looking for may not look like the person you're looking for.

The research supports it.

And after nearly two decades of matchmaking, so does my experience.

Have you ever become attracted to someone who wasn't your usual type? Let us know in the comments.

06/03/2026

Many people come to matchmaking believing the right introduction will solve everything.

But the truth is, matchmaking isn’t about creating a perfect partner out of thin air. It’s about helping compatible people find each other.

If you’re looking for someone who is emotionally available, relationship-minded, successful, and ready for a healthy partnership, it’s worth asking yourself:

Am I bringing those same qualities to the table?

The right platform can help. A great matchmaker can help. But neither can replace self-awareness, personal growth, or realistic expectations.

Sometimes the biggest obstacle to finding love isn’t where you’re looking.

It’s what you’re overlooking.

What quality do you think is most important for a successful long-term relationship? - let us know in the comments

05/28/2026

The problem? Relationships don’t work like a business strategy.

Sometimes the very traits that help people succeed professionally can quietly create distance in dating.

Overanalyzing. Protecting independence too much. Looking for perfection. Struggling to be vulnerable.

Long-term connection usually isn’t built through status, perfection, or instant sparks.

It’s built through:
• emotional safety
• consistency
• communication
• emotional intelligence

You don’t need to become less successful to find love.

But you may need to soften the mindset that everything has to make perfect sense immediately.

Read the full blog for more insights on dating, relationships, and emotional connection. Link in bio. ❤️

What do you think successful people struggle with most in dating?

05/27/2026

We live in a world where everyone says they want connection… but most people barely interact anymore outside of their screens.

Phones out at dinner.
AirPods in during walks.
Scrolling in elevators.
Avoiding eye contact in public.

Then people wonder why dating feels awkward, lonely, and disconnected.

The truth is: social confidence doesn’t magically appear when you meet someone attractive. It’s built through small daily interactions. Talking to people. Being present. Paying attention to the world around you instead of constantly escaping into your phone.

Some of the best relationships, friendships, opportunities, and memories start from one simple moment of interaction.

A conversation at a coffee shop.
A random compliment.
A smile.
A “how’s your day going?”

Human connection still exists. People just have to start looking up again.

A few reminders:

• Put your phone away when you’re around people.
• Practice small talk instead of avoiding it.
• Make eye contact more often.
• Stop wearing AirPods everywhere in public.
• Be approachable. Your energy matters.
• Learn how to be present without constant distraction.
• Not every interaction needs an outcome. Sometimes it’s just about being human.

Do you think phones are quietly making people less social?

05/26/2026

If you’re successful and still single, it’s not always “bad luck.”

Sometimes it’s this: you’re using the same mindset that built your life… to run your love life.

When dating turns into:

✅ checklists
✅ constant evaluating
✅ waiting for “instant fireworks”
✅ staying guarded / overly independent
✅ being too booked to build real momentum

…connection doesn’t stand a chance.

People aren’t resumes, checklists, or business deals.

In our latest blog, we share how high performers accidentally turn dating into an interview—and the mindset shift that creates real momentum without turning love into a second job.

Read it here: https://www.divinematchmaking.com/blog/the-same-mindset-that-makes-you-successful-can-hurt-your-love-life/

What’s one thing you’re working on doing less of in dating right now—overthinking, evaluating, or staying guarded?

💬 Comment SHIFT if you want a private, discreet conversation about what’s been getting in the way—and what would actually move things forward.

Highly successful people are often disciplined, driven, independent, decisive, and goal-oriented. Those traits help build businesses, careers, financial security, and impressive lives. But here’s the reality many accomplished singles struggle to understand: The mindset that creates success profess...

05/24/2026

We’re currently working with an educated professional in his mid-30s to help him find the right long-term match.

He leads an active, health-conscious lifestyle and is hoping to meet someone who is:

✨ Clean-cut, grounded, and loves to travel.
✨ Emotionally mature.
✨ Health-conscious and active.
✨ Driven and goal-oriented.
✨ Easy to talk to with great conversational skills.
✨ Between 25–45 years old.

Open to matches across Canada, especially BC and Alberta. Message us if this sounds like you or someone you know. ❤️