06/05/2026
This past few weeks, I've been struggling with finding safety and belonging at my son's school. Without sharing too many details, many people have been defensible, antagonistic and just angry. From mean responses via email to dismissive comments in person, the gatekeeping and volume has left me weary.
I don't think it was an accident that the month I build belonging resources, I was challenged to the find the belonging that I really am craving. One thing I've recognized even in these past few weeks is my body's response at school drop off and pick up - tight, balled up, head down and masking it all with a smile.
Our bodies have learned when we are safe and when we're not. And often our brain doesn't know it yet because it just needs those words.
While most of my pages and announcements have been celebratory, I feel solemn with this one. I think it cuts deep. Belonging is not something you can create - it is something that is felt.
My new resource page includes:
♥️ Videos and podcasts which tell stories of how belonging is felt and exclusion is created
♥️ An inclusive team charter to help you set your team up at the project launch with health and safety as the priority.
♥️ Inclusive Conversation Cards™ to provide insight into how you see belonging and how your team is navigating work culture.
♥️ And more.
Wherever you are in leadership or in your present circumstances of life, I hope you find belonging, safety, inclusion and the community you deserve. We all deserve a space to be ourselves without having to negotiate our dignity.
If you're looking for resources, I'd love to share them with you here 👉 : https://www.janklin.ca/belonging
If you're looking for honesty, perhaps a relationship to navigate inclusion and belonging, I'm here. Reach out.
Connect with me and be well. ♥️