06/06/2022
Silence is golden they say...why is that? What is so right about not speaking up and making your point? Why should you hush? Why shouldn't you say how you feel?
Well, some would say "I don't want to rock the boat" but isn't that allowing the swell to build up into a tsunami?
Some would say, " It's not worth the hassle" - are you scared of the outcome? If you think that outcome is not what you would want, then maybe it is golden and if you speak up be prepared to deal with the repurcussions.
Speaking your mind isn't wrong, what would be wrong is to subdue your feelings, what would be wrong is to not show that you have an opinion, something to say, something to stand up for. Just, when you decide to speak, say it with confidence, be prepared to defend your words, don't just be critical, or make a blunt statement, get your point across in the best way you can, as if you have said nothing but have said everything.