SG Admin

20/02/2026

Welcome to my new little side hustle

I’m listening to The Clarity Activator at the moment.

Not as a task.
Not as something to “work through”.
Just listening, letting it wash over me while I make a cup of tea, while I breathe, while I notice my body soften.

I’ve invested in coaching over the last few years, different mentors, different approaches, all valuable in their own way. And recently, a few conversations with someone new gently led me here. Not with force. Not with persuasion. Just a quiet nudge that felt like remembering rather than learning.

What keeps landing for me is this:

Clarity isn’t something we create.
It’s what’s left when we stop interfering.

Like muddy water settling when left alone, the mind naturally clears when we stop trying to manage it.

The Wooman doesn’t chase clarity.
She allows it to return.

Reflection
Where in your life might you be stirring the water, simply out of habit?

02/02/2026

Today I sent out my 100th invoice since setting up SG Admin in February 2025.

That number isn’t just about invoices. It represents conversations, trust, and businesses that decided they didn’t need to do everything themselves.

Over the past year, I’ve had the privilege of supporting a wide mix of brilliant people, from audiologists and personal trainers to building surveyors, networking experts and coaches. Different industries, different challenges… but one shared theme: admin overload.

My role is simple (but powerful):
to calm the admin chaos so business owners can focus on the strategic, income-generating parts of their business, the bits only they should be doing.

100 invoices in, and I’m more certain than ever that this work matters. Not just because things get ticked off lists, but because clarity, headspace and momentum return.

Grateful. Proud. And quietly excited for what comes next.

If you’re spinning too many plates and know something has to give, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to do it all yourself.

30/01/2026

Today marked my first foray back into in person networking since my operation and what a beautiful way to return.

I spent the morning at the Athena West Berkshire Pastries and Possibilities event, connecting with some truly inspiring women. I’m so grateful to be part of this incredible community, led so thoughtfully by Lara Lauder. As always, the morning didn’t disappoint.

What I love most about this group is how uplifting it is. These women have a way of helping you see possibilities you hadn’t even considered yet, gently expanding your thinking and reminding you what’s possible when you’re supported.

After the event, I had some lovely one-to-one conversations with women who also embrace the woo side of life. Out came my fairy cards, and guidance was shared. This part of me brings me so much joy and I love seeing how it helps women gain clarity, both personally and professionally, around things that have been niggling away in the background.

I know I still have some things to clarify for myself, but it feels like new possibilities are opening up and perhaps a shift in business direction too.

For now, I’m simply grateful. Grateful for community, connection, and gentle reminders that sometimes the next step reveals itself only when you allow yourself to show up again.

10/12/2025

I’ve been much quieter than usual on social media these past few months. Since August, life has looked very different behind the scenes, with several hospital visits thanks to kidney stones. This isn’t a “woe is me” post, but more of an honest reflection on what this period has taught me.

I’ve never been someone who finds it easy to ask for help. I’m used to cracking on, keeping everything moving, and supporting everyone who relies on me. But recently, I’ve had no choice but to lean on others, and it has genuinely humbled me.

My clients have been incredible throughout all of this. There have been days, and sometimes weeks, when pain or hospital stays meant I simply couldn’t work in the way I usually do. I haven’t been able to show up with my usual consistency, but I’ve done my best and their patience and understanding have meant more than they know.

I’d be lying if I said I haven’t felt frustrated. When you’re self-employed, if you don’t work, you don’t earn, and that reality has been sitting heavily. I’m grateful every day that my husband has been able to carry us financially while I get sorted.

And yes, I’ve been frustrated with the medical system too. The care from my GP and the hospital staff has been brilliant, but the wider system is so disjointed and slow. When you’re in pain, every delay feels twice as long.

But, fingers crossed, on 18th December, I should finally get these rotten stones dealt with once and for all. It’ll mean a slower, quieter Christmas while I recover, but maybe that’s exactly what I need.

If these months have taught me anything, it’s the importance of slowing down. Of pausing long enough to take stock of where we are, what we’re doing, and where we actually want to go, in business and in life.

And once I’m back on my feet, I’ll be bringing something new into the world. Something I’m deeply passionate about. A new way of helping people, beyond the admin support I love providing to small businesses.

I’ll share more when the time feels right. For now, I just wanted to say thank you to my clients for their grace, to everyone who checked in, and to those who held me up when I finally admitted I needed it.

Sometimes the quieter seasons are the ones that teach us the most.

23/10/2025

✨ Cappuccino Connections with Athena ✨

Today I headed over to The Bear in Hungerford for Athena West Berkshire’s Cappuccino Connections and it was a very different kind of drive for me.

Thanks to the lovely Cathy Hargreaves, who crafted a personalised hypnosis meditation, I actually enjoyed my journey there and back for the very first time. Driving anxiety has always been a challenge, but today it felt light, calm, and even joyful.

At the event, I met some wonderful women for the first time and reconnected with familiar faces. That’s what I love about the Athena network: every woman genuinely wants the best for you. They’ll cheer you on, hold you accountable, and support you in whatever way you need, whether that’s a hug, a share of your posts, or a referral that changes your business.

The highlight for me came at the end, when a small group of us stayed chatting. I opened up about a little side hustle I’ve been nurturing around my spirituality. On a whim, I’d brought my fairy tarot cards with me, and when I mentioned them, everyone was keen to pick a card.

What unfolded was magical. For one woman, it even led to me channelling a loved one who had passed, not at all what I expected to happen at a networking event, but a powerful and beautiful moment.

So now, there’s no backing out; the universe (and Athena) have spoken. Watch this space for something new coming soon… 🌙✨

The Athena Network - West Berks

02/09/2025

Today marks 25 years of marriage to my man-beast. 29 years together this November.

He has been my rock through every season of life, standing with me in the good times and never wavering in the hard ones.

This past year has been especially testing:

• Starting and growing my business

• Losing my mum in December

• Supporting his parents through their health challenges

• Facing my own health struggles

Through it all, he has been there, holding me when I broke down, staying by my side in hospital, reminding me that I don’t have to carry everything on my own.

It’s made me realise just how important it is to have someone in your corner. Someone who doesn’t just show up for the celebrations, but who stays when things get messy.

In life, that’s my husband. In business, I try to be that person for others, the quiet support behind the scenes, helping shoulder the weight when it feels too heavy.

18/08/2025

Friday evening didn’t quite go to plan. I ended up in Wi******er hospital and spent the weekend being cared for by the most wonderful staff. The pain I had that night was something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. At first, I thought it was another ovarian cyst, but as the hours went by it became worse than the time one burst.

After a few tests, the answer came back. Kidney stones. One has already passed, but the other is too big to leave on its own, so I’ll need medical intervention to deal with it. Not quite how I expected my weekend to go.

On the plus side, the hospital food was surprisingly decent. I know, who knew? I even snapped a few pictures because, honestly, some of it was better than I’d expected for a hospital stay.

Earlier that same Friday, I had a call with a potential client. She shared what she needed help with, and truthfully, she could do it all herself if she wanted to. The thing is, she would have to learn as she went, which means more time, more effort and more stress. By passing it to me, she gets someone who knows exactly what they are doing, and she can get back to the parts of her business that need her focus.

It struck me how similar this is to health. When we are unwell, we don’t try to solve it all ourselves; we go to the professionals. Yet so many people try to muddle through with their business admin instead of getting the right support.

Sometimes, handing things over is not a weakness; it’s the smartest way to move forward.

24/07/2025

Fantastic admin cover" isn't my words, it's theirs. Quick to learn, great with clients, and a sharp eye for detail. I am grateful for clients who appreciate the difference expert support makes.

20/05/2025

How I juggle multiple clients without dropping the ball.

Working with several clients means spinning a lot of plates, but none of them are paper!

To keep things running smoothly, I use tools like Trello to track each client’s tasks, priorities, and deadlines. Every item has its place, and every client gets their dedicated time.

I block out segments in my calendar so I can focus solely on one client at a time, no multitasking chaos, just deep focus and quality work.

But here’s the thing: I also block out time for me. Gym sessions, wellbeing appointments, time to breathe,it all goes in the diary. (Let’s just say I’m grateful for reminder notifications, or I’d be the one forgetting my own massage appointment while making sure everyone else's admin is on point.)

Client work? Always done.
My personal appointments? …Let’s just say I’m working on it.

Because running a business and supporting others doesn't mean running yourself into the ground. Organisation and balance are the name of the game.

16/05/2025

The Right VA Makes All the Difference

This week, a client finally got around to tackling an Excel spreadsheet that had been sitting on their to-do list for nearly three months.

Not because I did it for them—but because I took enough off their plate that they finally had the time and headspace to get to it.

That’s the power of having the right Virtual Assistant. Someone who can step in, take control of the day-to-day, and create the breathing room you need to focus on the things that keep getting pushed aside.

But let’s be honest—not every VA is the right VA. Just like any industry, there are a few bad apples out there. If you’ve had a negative experience, I hear you—but don’t give up. The right support is out there, and when you find it, the impact on your business is huge.

14/05/2025

Yesterday I made a client cry.

But before you worry, no—I wasn’t mean to them!
Quite the opposite.

They were overwhelmed. Drowning in a sea of to-dos. And after just a couple of weeks of working together, the relief of finally handing things over… well, it all got a bit emotional.

I’d picked up the tasks quickly, cleared the fog, and they realised they could delegate more than they ever imagined. Cue the tears (and a few tissues).

They even said, “I wish I could clone you for other areas of the business.”

Now, while they’ve managed to clone Dolly the sheep, I’m not sure my husband would be thrilled about having another me pottering about the place...

Being a virtual assistant isn’t just about ticking things off a to-do list—it’s about helping people move from chaos to clarity, from stress to smashing goals.

And honestly? That’s my favourite part of the job.

06/05/2025

I've been a little quiet on here recently, but with good reason—there's been a lot happening behind the scenes.

Over the past few weeks, I’ve started working with a new client, which has meant learning new software and getting up to speed with their systems and processes so I can support them effectively.

I also attended a three-day seminar on Emotional Assertiveness, which turned out to be a powerful experience. I had some huge breakthroughs around how I respond in certain situations, and now that I have more awareness, I can start breaking old patterns and learning to express my emotions in a healthy, authentic way—though my face might still give me away from time to time!

On top of that, I’ve been chatting to potential new clients and today had a meeting with a previous client who’s keen to work with me again to take his business to the next level.

Exciting times.