09/06/2025
When everything feels important, how do you decide what truly matters?
This is the question I find myself asking most days as I juggle it all. 🤹♀️
With my boys Lucas (5) and Joshua (8), training Lola (our 4-month-old Rottweiler puppy who is a sweetheart), building a freelance marketing consultancy and community, developing my Flower School (because some dreams can’t be ignored), and keeping the house somewhat in order—I’m often left wondering how on earth to prioritise.
I can almost hear some of you saying, “You’re doing too much, you need to drop something!” And you know what? You’re probably right. But here’s the thing—I love everything I’m doing! The challenge is finding a way to make it all fit. For now, I’m focusing on a few priorities:
💷 Revenue-generating tasks – I’m focusing the most energy on client work that creates income.
🐕🦺 Lola’s training – She’s a 4-month-old Rottie… say no more! Consistency is everything, and it will make my life and hers much easier and happier - I'm supporting my future self!
🥰 Quality time - Spending quality time with the boys and my partner rather than loads of 'glancing at phone, I'll just reply to that email time'. Being 100% present with them when we are together. Phone goes in a drawer!
✒️ Content creation – Staying consistent here is my first step, but I’m also learning to accept I can only do so much, starting with what's manageable and building from there.
💐 Starting small with the Flower School – It’s a passion project, so I’m allowing it to grow one step at a time but we all know that from small seeds can grown big trees so I'm excited to see what happens.
🙏 Asking for help! –I'm awful at this! Always have been! Get the family stuck in with routines, the important things get done, then the rest can wait!
For those of you also in the thick of it, how do you prioritise what matters most? Do you have any strategies or advice for staying focused (and sane!) when life feels so full? I’d love to hear what works for you.