03/03/2025
Welcome to March! The longer days, sunnier skies and a hint towards the warmer weather is well and truly on it's way. It's been very welcomed in our house over the last few days.
Now I don't make New Years resolutions but something that I started to do last year was to plan an activity at the end of each month, with 'me' at the centre of it. I haven't mentioned it to anyone, until last week when I mentioned it in passing and it really resonated with the women that I was with, so today I'm sharing it here.
Every month, usually in the last week of the month, I plan something that's just for me. I usually book it in advance, to ensure that it doesn't get rescheduled and it's usually less than £50 investment, but it has to be something that is truly for me. It could be a wild swim in the sea, an event or activity that I've wanted to do, a day off with a lunch planned, a facial or a 1:1 session. The point it has to be for me, it isn't about work, it's completely and utterly investing in me. It's not about financial freedom either, it can be a completely free activity, it just has to be something for me and not anything else.
Why did I start this? The truth is that I felt pulled in so many directions through work, family commitments, other roles that I do or just being really embedded in the business that I couldn't see the word for the trees. I listened to a podcast back in around the late summer last year and what really resonated with me, was that you have to look after yourself first to look after everyone else first. Now I know that, we all do, but as a multi-tasking/juggling mum of two, business owner with many other hats - I sometimes lose my way. So with my HR hat on, I thought, what would I advise someone else to do?
That's where it started and I really thrive from it every month. It gives me time out, perspective and it's reminded me of doing the things that I really enjoy, or wanted to try and just previously made the time to do.
Over the coming months I have a lot of things launching in the business, all of which I love, but this is all the more important for me to really have that headspace.
What do you think? Would you give it a try?