18/04/2026
Quick one for employersā¦
Check your junk folder today. Seriously.
I did yesterday (very rare for me)⦠and I found a reference request sitting there about a previous employee.
And I just thought⦠wow.
No message.
No heads up.
Nothing.
Just my name being used as a reference.
The thing isā¦
That business closed 6 years ago.
I havenāt heard from this person in years.
So not gonna lie, it caught me off guard.
And it got me thinkingā¦
How many opportunities are being missed because of this?
Emails going to spam.
References never replying.
Employers thinking theyāve been ignored.
When actually⦠theyāve just never been seen.
Iām always happy to support people Iāve worked with. Always.
But a quick message would make such a difference.
Just a simple:
āHey, Iāve put you down as a reference, hope thatās okay.ā
Thatās it.
Because your reference isnāt just about your workā¦
Itās about communication too.