10/06/2026
I finished reading Yesteryear over half term which is a book centred around a trad wife Instagram influencer. Don’t worry, I won’t spoil it for anyone who hasn’t read it, but it’s fair to say the polished online persona and the reality behind closed doors were very different things.
It really made me think about Instagram in general… and my own little corner of it too.
Because whilst you only see snippets of my life on here, I genuinely hope they’re real snippets. The glamorous bits and the ridiculous ones.
You’ve seen me plucking my chin hairs in the car mirror. Digging mouldy boots out from the back of the wardrobe. My ongoing Vinted addiction. The holey dog walking clothes that should probably have been retired years ago. Losing my car in a multi storey car park in Bath. Turning up to give a talk 24 hours early….and today, leaving my handbag at the venue.
Of course social media is curated to some extent because I don’t upload every argument, stress or mundane moment, but I hope if someone followed me online and then met me in person, the two versions would feel reassuringly similar.
I’m not pretending to have it all together. It’s just me…usually slightly creased as I don’t like ironing…..
You can tell me otherwise but I think there’s something comforting about people showing up as themselves these days.
Has anyone else read it? I’d love to know what you thought.