02/09/2026
Itās not about āpushing them through itā or āmaking them do itā.
Itās about understanding what theyāre feeling, why theyāre struggling and then finding a way to help them feel comfortable with what youāre asking.
Sometimes that means taking a step back, sometimes it means changing the way youāre asking and sometimes it means gently helping them work through a little pressure bit by bit rather than avoiding it altogether.
The aim isnāt to remove every feeling⦠itās to teach them that they can understand it, regulate themselves and come out the other side of it.
Itās really based on how a horseās nervous system works. When they reach their threshold, their nervous system starts shifting into survival mode, where fight, flight or freeze can take over.
Their ability to think, process and learn changes. So rather than seeing that threshold as something to push past, we see it as really valuable information about what the horse is experiencing in that moment.
Growth often happens by gently expanding that threshold in small, manageable increments, without tipping them into overwhelm.