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Re.Vive.Coaching Qualified Life Coach, Narcissistic Abuse Specialist & Author of Take A Walk On The Narc Side đź’ś

When your client brings you roses đź’›
21/10/2026

When your client brings you roses đź’›

Low mood, depression and anxiety can affect so many of us, often without warning. While medication from the GP is helpfu...
18/10/2026

Low mood, depression and anxiety can affect so many of us, often without warning.

While medication from the GP is helpful, you can also help to boost your serotonin levels by practicing simple daily rituals.

Feeling motivated to do anything is a struggle, I understand this, but forcing yourself to do just one simple task daily will help make each and every day a little bit easier đź’ś

Don’t fear what might happen if you decide to leave an unhappy, unhealthy marriage…….fear what might happen if you stay ...
11/10/2026

Don’t fear what might happen if you decide to leave an unhappy, unhealthy marriage…….fear what might happen if you stay 💜

02/10/2026

A narcissistic man is often a son with a mother wound.
Rejected… or worshipped as the golden child. It starts in childhood, long before you ever met him. If he was rejected, he learned that love was conditional — that affection had to be earned, that approval could be taken away at any moment. He carried that hunger into adulthood, searching for someone who would finally fill the void, yet never trusting that love could truly last.

If he was the golden child, the favored one, it wasn’t freedom — it was a different kind of prison. He was placed on a pedestal he never asked for, praised when he performed, punished when he disappointed, controlled under the disguise of “love.” The golden child grows up believing he exists to meet someone else’s needs, not his own. He grows up praised but powerless, adored but emasculated.

And here is the tragedy: unhealed, both paths lead to the same destination. The son becomes a man, but the wound remains a boy inside of him. He does not know how to love without control, without projection, without rage. So when he enters a relationship with you, history starts to repeat itself.

At first, you are his partner — his equal, his love. But slowly, you’re pulled into a role you never agreed to. You stop being his partner. You become his mother. The one who comforts his tantrums, absorbs his moods, and holds the pieces of the man he never became.

And the rage he carries for her — the resentment he never resolved, the pain he never admitted — gets redirected onto you. You feel the sharp words, the cold silence, the punishments that make no sense. It isn’t because of who you are, but because you are standing in the place where his wound was born. You are his mirror, his battlefield, his substitute for what he could never confront.

This is why love with a narcissistic man feels less like a partnership and more like a war you never signed up for. You keep trying to nurture, heal, and understand, not realizing the wound was never yours to fix. Because no matter how much love you pour into him, it cannot replace the love he never received — or undo the damage of the love he received the wrong way.

Your life on earth is precious……don’t waste days, months, years waiting for better days. Make them happen 💜
23/09/2026

Your life on earth is precious……don’t waste days, months, years waiting for better days. Make them happen 💜

First and foremost…….I apologise to my Mother for the swear word 🙏🏼As a child of God she disapproves of me using bad lan...
20/09/2026

First and foremost…….I apologise to my Mother for the swear word 🙏🏼

As a child of God she disapproves of me using bad language however…..in this particular instance I do believe the word is required to express how strongly I feel about the people I now allow to take a seat at my table.

The numbers may be few, but the quality is high đź’ś

It’s not always about you. Learning the skill to leave the responsibilities of words spoken or decisions taken solely wi...
18/09/2026

It’s not always about you.

Learning the skill to leave the responsibilities of words spoken or decisions taken solely with those who offered them can be life changing for your own mental health đź’ś

Don’t carry upon yourself the burden of someone else’s words and actions.

Ready for another day đź’ś
18/09/2026

Ready for another day đź’ś

17/09/2026

It’s reviews like this that make me feel incredibly proud and privileged all at once.

I feel proud that I’ve been able to turn my negative experiences that life has thrown at me into something positive, and proud that I am able to have such a profound impact on people 💜

“I reached out to Debbie back in May seeking for help to go through a hard time in my life when my boyfriend got diagnosed with a serious illness. When I first walked into therapy, I was already carrying the fear of my boyfriend’s illness. And then almost immediately, he ended our relationship. I can’t fully explain how that felt. Like the ground under me just vanished. It wasn’t only heartbreak, it was fear, confusion, and unanswered questions all at once. I honestly believed I would never get over it. I couldn’t imagine a future where the pain wasn’t at the center of everything. But Debbie kept showing up. She held space for me when I could barely sit with myself. She never rushed me or told me who I should become. She reminded me that it’s okay to hurt. And that my worth isn’t decided by someone else’s choice to stay or go. Over time, she helped me choose myself again, to be present in this moment instead of only living in the past. She helped me find pieces of myself I thought were gone. And though I still carry the hurt, I can see how much I’ve grown since that first day. Debbie didn’t fix me, she walked beside me while I learned how to carry what happened and how to believe I’m still worth choosing. I’m only 20 trying to understand things that felt much too big and frightening for me. Debbie became this steady, familiar presence, almost like a motherly figure, offering safety and understanding when I felt lost. Even when I was drowning in questions I never got answers to, she gently reminded me that sometimes you don’t get the answers you desperately want. Sometimes healing means letting go without explanation. That was incredibly hard for me. But she helped me see a way forward. She reminded me of my worth, helped me choose myself, and taught me to be present instead of living trapped in the past. She didn’t erase the pain. She walked beside me while I learned how to live alongside it, without letting it swallow everything. If you’re struggling - Debbie is the one that could help you. And, Debbie, I’m incredibly thankful that you stayed with me every step of the way.”





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