22/04/2026
Chris from MAFS has got me talking about something I’ve wanted to say for a while and I’m not even a fan of the word “empath,” and here’s why. It flattens something that’s actually really complex, because empathy isn’t a fixed trait you either have or don’t have. It shifts and changes depending on your past experiences, your patterns, your nervous system, and crucially, your ability to pause and take accountability for what you’re feeling in any given moment. The reality is that we’re all capable of deep empathy, and we’re all equally capable of missing it entirely and sometimes the people who identify most strongly with the label are the ones least able to sit with that truth.