07/04/2024
When I decided to leave banking and quit the rat race forever, I was faced with a choice: should I train to become a Psychologist or do something entirely different?
Over the past decade, my journey has fueled a passion for mental health. Impacted by anxious feelings, I knew I had to change how I lived my life. I was also increasingly aware of my mortality, having experienced life-impact surgery three times.
Clear that I should leave banking I found myself leaning towards preventing more people from going down the 'burnout' and miserable lives path I had.
I recalled the words of a dear friend of mine. He suggested that rather than fixing all the problems yourself, you were better off acting more strategically—macro over micro. My mind was drawn to the compound effect of touching a life and, in turn, seeing everyone they knew benefit from their example and influence. Mental Health is like that; contagious in a positive way.
I decided to influence as many lives as I could. If I could touch the lives of Psychologists and Counsellors, they would, in turn, have a more significant impact themselves. For every person they helped, their impact would rub off on an even more substantial number of people.
Surely Psychologists and Counsellors are doing fine on their own already? After all, they know how to look after themselves and have Supervisors and therapeutic services available whenever needed. That's true partly, and for some, that's all they need.
However, having interviewed many therapists over the years, it has become clear that therapists aren't always living their best lives. Even with full books, they tell me they don't have enough time to do what they want in both their business and personal lives.
So, I decided that I would focus on helping therapists thrive, knowing that when they thrive, they are in their best position to help others. And, every time they help someone, they likely also touch the lives of the family and friends of that individual.
Helping people has such a compound effect. That's why I love what I do.