03/02/2023
Do I take this as the end? “managing expectations” feels like it applies to more than what he is saying.
In the past few months we have spent every weekend together. Not seeing eachother at all sounds like the end. I feel like if he cared he’d say but we’d see eachother in the week or the following weekend.
We had an argument a couple of weeks ago. We hung out last weekend, had a great time and I thought everything was ok. On reflection things were tenuous.
We used to talk everyday, he seemed so attached early on, but it took a dive and this is where we are today.
I feel very torn.
Does this situation and these feelings resonate with you?
What you should do in this situation is give him space and respect his boundaries.
Don’t reach out, reaching out when you’re anxious is only going to push him further away.
Take time at the weekend for you, do something you love, reconnect with friends, treat yourself to some time at the Spa, practice some self love and if you haven’t heard from him reach out to him on Monday.
