Drum Coaching Ltd

14/03/2026

The loyal soldier perhaps you think you don’t have one? Look a bit deeper look into that small dark place in your mind where you get your strength from. That voice that says you’re not enough but try hard harder, push longer and you might prove them wrong.

They are your friend, ally and loyal soldier through the struggles. The problem is that there is a tipping point, at some point they go quiet when they think you’ve reached where your limits.

They stop encouraging you and shouting you on from the sidelines and they start whispering words like, that that’s enough. Stay quiet now, stay small, you’ve done what you’re supposed to do.

Here is the danger because you’re loyal soldier only knows the version of you they first met, they have no idea who you are now and that’s why they hold you back.

At some point, you need to retire that loyal soldier, thank them for their service and for getting you as far as you have.

You need to appreciate that holding you back now is their only task, thank them and let them go.

Drum Coaching

04/03/2026

This was me on the weekend! As they say one picture can say 1000 words, and this picture is a great example. But this post isn’t about me, it’s about my daughter Brooke ❤️

Just over a year ago I had my life changing accident being trapped by my arm while it was crushed for over an hour and left with an arm that had no feeling or movement was the scariest situation I’d ever faced.

Slowly as the months went past, I started getting some feeling and movement in my fingertips. I can now write with a pen and type on a keyboard and unbelievably on the weekend I rode our young dressage horse.

Freddie is not an easy horse being young and very, very large, so it was a true challenge. The real game changer was not my inner courage (much as I’d like to think it was) it was having my daughter there, willing me on smiling and telling me how proud she was of me. That was the real game changer, that’s what moved the needle.

Have someone that can make you feel unstoppable even when you feel weak. Someone who believes in you no matter what, even when you fail in front of them they’re belief in you is unshakeable.

Our retreats and coaching build you up, but if you have no one in your corner to cheer when no one else is listening life can be tough. Find a coach by all means come to a retreat absolutely (it’s life changing) but if you don’t connect with people who will cheer you on and be there during your hour of need it it’ll be an uphill struggle.

We all need our tribe, even if our tribe is just one person, if you have them cherish them if you don’t go and find them!

Drum Coaching

20/02/2026

I’m only acceptable in the right light
Not too bright, hide it from sight
Not too loud, but not too quiet
Not too happy, show no delight
Not too confident, don’t be a riot
I’m only acceptable in the right light

Be the woman who becomes her own safe place.
The one who no longer waits to be chosen, saved, or completed because she rises, gathers her broken pieces, and creates herself again with tender, deliberate hands.

She sits with her pain instead of running from it. She listens to what it is trying to teach her. She studies her patterns, forgives her past, and turns every wound into wisdom. Her healing is not loud, but it is powerful a quiet revolution happening within her soul.

She protects her peace like something sacred. She stops asking others for the love and reassurance she now knows how to give herself. She sets boundaries without guilt, walks away without explanation, and chooses herself without apology.

She does not need a savior she becomes the light that saves herself.

And in doing so, she becomes unstoppable, radiant, and free.

22/01/2026

I’ve seen fire and rain
I’ve seen sunny days that I thought would never end
I’ve seen lonely times when I couldn’t find a friend
But I always thought I’d see you again

Words by James Taylor

Coaching doesn’t happen in a sterile environment, it nestles into my clients real lives. Sometimes we have to share sadness in the call. I am always humbled when they share their grief or sadness.

It makes me realise the impact we coaches can have even when we don’t say a word. Today was one of those days 🙏🏻

20/01/2026

19/01/2026

And I’m off again! This time to Copenhagen to meet a new team ! It’s always exciting to meet a new client so 8 new clients is big…! I have a healthy mix of excitement, fear and optimism.

Looking back at who I was fills me with pride, thinking of what I’ve done but it also reminds me that without that first step I wouldn’t be here now. I had to chose my pain, the pain of anxiety and the realization that my world was getting smaller each day or the pain of trying new things, pushing myself, expecting more from life!

So today is about taking the first step, not the result but that I had the courage to take the first step 🙏🏻

13/01/2026

✨ Honoured. Grateful. Unapologetically myself. ✨

From dyslexia to unapologetic leadership - one brave step at a time.
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11/01/2026

11/01/2026

This project started a few weeks ago with a cream bedroom and a bed bought from dreams. It had no soul, just functional. It now has a feeling of timeless luxury and calm 🙏🏻 sometimes you just have to lean in and do the things that your heart needs ❤️