07/04/2026
In our lives, we'll all get hurt. We'll all face loss, regret, a shift.
It's what we do with it that counts.
How we react.
How we gain more clarity, more insight into ourselves and our needs, and set things in place to ensure we grow.
Not despite the pain, but because of it.
In my own recovery from a knee injury and then surgery, I've been rethinking what I offer and how I work.
I love coaching. I've done it for a decade and a half.
But I knew I had more in me because my passion is to help young people grow into mentally healthy adults capable of taking on the world, especially those from marginalised backgrounds.
I've been wondering how I can do that best, what skills I have, and where my strengths lie.
In that aim, I'm having coffee meetings and I started with Catrina Mitchum-Phd and Rochelle DavisDavis.
Rochelle's journey was interesting and we geeked out over the joys and absolute hair-pulling stress of automation-building ;)
But she also gave me some advice: she stressed the importance of not just knowing your goals and passion for change, but also what energises you and what tasks you enjoy when fostering that change and achieving those goals.
I realised I love creating better systems for organisations to make more impact with less time and resources so they can spend more time helping young people and less time on admin.
It's about thinking bigger. How can we have a bigger impact?
I'm a systems thinker. I understand the wider systems at play and have a knack for finding the best ways to impact those structures—engaging in collaborations and partnerships, finding efficient ways to manage a company, saving costs. That's what I've done in my 15 years as a director for non-profits.
I worked for a 501c3 non-profit in the U.S., making cost-saving decisions and using tech to improve support systems for stakeholders and those we served. Now I do that as a consultant for organisations—but not just as a consultant. I'm a partner, a collaborator. I love getting to know an organisation inside out.
So I'm happy to let go of things I'm good at — like, there is a lot I'm good at — but don't enjoy even if they served a purpose at one time.