14/11/2025
Sometimes it is not other people holding you back. It is your own yesterday.
It comes quietly with memories, guilt or regret.
It reminds you of things you wish you did differently.
But the truth is simple. Yesterday is jealous.
It cannot stand that you are becoming someone new.
Yesterday behaves like a friend who does not want to let go.
It keeps saying remember this, remember that.
It tries to repeat old stories, both sweet and painful.
But yesterday does not like change.
It does not like seeing you grow.
It wants to convince you that nothing has changed, that you are still the same person with the same fears and the same limits.
If you listen for too long, you start going in circles.
You repeat the same mistakes.
You fight the same battles.
You stay in the same place and call it fate.
There is a Yoruba saying.
A kii fi owo kan ojo ana ka fi owo keji gba ojo iwaju.
You cannot hold yesterday with one hand and hold tomorrow with the other.
Your hands must be free to rise and build again.
Yesterday has taught you what it came to teach.
Its job is finished. Today is your classroom now.
Every morning, yesterday will try to knock on your mind.
It will remind you of regrets, missed chances, people who hurt you and times you fell.
But you must answer gently.
Thank you for the lessons, but I am moving on.
Let today breathe. Let today have its own story.
Your future is waiting too. It is watching to see what you do with your today.
Another Yoruba proverb says:
Bi a ko ba gbagbe ohun ana a kii ri ohun tuntun gba.
If you do not release yesterday, you cannot receive something new.
So maybe it is time to stop trying to repair what has already happened.
Maybe it is time to shape what is still coming.
Let yesterday be one chapter.
Let today be your page of courage.
Let tomorrow be your quiet promise.
No matter how loudly yesterday speaks, it cannot change the story of someone who has decided to heal, grow and begin again.