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24/11/2020

So what is an engaging and compelling conversation?

Engaging in conversational sense means a two-way dialogue. She contributes as much as you. She is invested in the interaction as much as you if not more. She isn’t a spectator. She isn’t an interviewee. You aren’t the entertainer or jester or interviewer.

1. Active Listening:
Unfortunate thing I observe time and again is that we don’t listen to understand but to reply. We already have an answer or great line to say next. We are waiting for a pause in the interaction to blurt it out.

Listen to understand. Not just what is said but also things that are left unsaid, in between lines; things people want to say but feel like they can’t. If you really listen to understand, you will catch things. Things that other people didn’t pay attention to. You will all of a sudden have deeper and meaningful conversations as opposed to surface level boring conversations people expect from a stranger.

2. Ask Better Questions:
I believe there are stupid questions; boring questions; and meaningless questions. I also believe there are great questions; cheeky questions; fun questions; and quality questions.

If you find yourself asking the following questions in some form or shape, you will never get quality answers which means dull, directionless and useless conversations. Those questions are:

What do you do?
Where are you from?
How is your day/night going?
What do you do for fun?
Do you have a boyfriend?

3. Body Language:
We are programmed to read and analyse body language. Your body communicates as well as your mouth.

Have good eye contact, meaning you should be able to tell her eye colour. This also means eyes up front concentrated on her face, not her other assets.

Open hands and gestures to support what you are saying. No jazz hands or dangerous, sudden gestures to knock her drink off or poke someone in the eye.

Smile to put yourself and her at ease. Make sure it is genuine and come out at the right times.

Speak clearly and slowly enough to be heard. It also gives her chances to stop you to ask prompting questions.

23/11/2020

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14/09/2020

Your Ego Isn’t Your Amigo

14/09/2020

Today I want to talk about engaging and compelling conversations, and how to make your interactions like that.

Let me tell you what is not an engaging and compelling conversation first:

It is not interrogating somebody with 101 interview questions: What do you do? Where are you from? What’s your name? Who are you here with? How old are you?

It is not about you becoming a conversational narcissist: me, me, me. Oh, I did that too, let me tell you how great I am. Or that happened to me, let me tell you how big of a victim I am.

It is not about you choosing safe and surface-level topics and exchange information either party is interested in

It is not about having agendas or ulterior motives. You want something but can’t even build up the courage to be upfront about it and both of you just know it.

It is not about forgettable or boring chit chat: if an interaction isn’t bringing you fun, happiness, knowledge, or increasing your value, why are you having it in the first place?

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14/09/2020

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