27/07/2024
[DAY 26- STEP INTO YOUR POWER] Tell me if you can relate to this (uggghhhh!!!)
I see so many people demanding freedom and ease and money and the [insert desired result] but ….
You know that moment when you talk to someone and from the first minute or so, you can pinpoint exactly what’s keeping them stuck?
And you nudge them in the right direction, only to be countered with some variation of people:
-Unconsciously fighting so hard for their current limitations
-Advocating for their stories
-Finding fascinating excuses why they’re not getting results and giving their power away to their circumstances or other people.
Let me crystal clear,
Because if we ever interact in any capacity, I will never buy into the story that you don’t have the ability to create the results you want, in any area of your life, not just in business.
Because I know deep in my bones that you are absolutely capable of having it all, all at once.
It only takes commitment and consistency
And no… I’m not preaching.
Just some deep honest truths because I was so deep into that rabbit hole of why things are unfair, why I couldn’t do certain things because it’s not perfect yet or because the timing is not right, I don’t have the money right now…. things outside my control and my most favourite learned lesson….when I’ll see it I’ll believe it.
And that kept me stuck for years. Until I got too tired of my own pile of p**p
I got tired of being triggered by other people who were gliding through life, whilst I felt like I was climbing a mountain in flip-flops (seriously if you haven't tried it... just don't)
I wanna share with you, the levels of stuckness, that I went through and what I’ve learned from them:
Level 1. THE BELIEF. You can’t do anything because you don’t even believe things are available to you. You're attracting all sorts of weird circumstances, event and people into your life that seem to only deepen the wound ...and you're not really sure why "life is unfair"(More on this later in my posts)
So you start doing deep work to address your mindset beliefs and heal all the traumas, conditioning and stories that are not even yours to begin with, that you’re wearing like a badge of honour.
Because deep down you want to show the world how powerful and capable you are and this is the only way you know how to do it (and at this point you're telling everyone who has an ear about all the heavy baggage you're carrying around) But you’re an action taker so you ditch the last attempt to stay the same, because you know it’s leading nowhere fast.
Level 2. THE MINDSET. Also known as the monk period, where you do the mind and energetical work, go through the dark knight of the soul and have spiritual awakenings and you verge on quantum leaping but you don’t see the 3D evidence. You get past ghosts of who you used to be popping when you least expect it and sometimes that temporarily derails you. So you summon everything you've got because you know you are your own prince charming.
You feel the internal conflict between the in and out, above and below what you know and what you experience. A slippery moment when you’re not getting receipts for your beliefs…yet. You can smell the possibility but don’t see it yet.
LEVEL 3. THE PROBLEM SOLVER. You’re now the architect of your new mentality, the one you can truly feel comfortable living in… long term. You no longer entertain your past, because your focused in welcoming your future.
You can discern between chances offered and choices made and you’re going all in. But there’s a catch because knowing what’s possible, you sometimes fall into the trap of wanting to “save” everyone at your own expense.
LEVEL 4. THE PEAK PERFORMER. You’ve stopped listening to illusions and surround yourself with people who will help you stretch into your vision.
You’re exploring your best timeline, because duh, now you’ve got some real-life skills but this comes with a massive blindspot and a serious cost. Most times is your personal relationship(s) or health…. Because massive success is as addictive as a drug and you want more.
LEVEL 5. MAD MIRACLES MANIFESTOR. This is where you FEEL and EXPERIENCE making it big. You finally get when other people we’re saying “it feels easy and in flow” because you’ve mastered the THE ART OF ALIGNMENT (your beliefs, your thoughts and your actions) ..... You can easily self-correct but that’s not even a wow moment at this point because...well, at this point, it's become a habit and you don't even notice it consciously. You’re also quantum leaping and jumping realities and it brings prana into you. You realize this is how it feels TO FULLY LIVE and you're having a blast, without the need to advertise it.. just like inner Nirvana...............
I wanted to offer you this because this has been my journey for more than 20 years and countless mentors, programs, lessons, people, triggering points, and life-changing experiences to get here.
(Not saying this to brag or guerilla promote coaching, I got nothing to sell you today)
Well actually I do - I wanna sell you on YOUR POTENTIAL!
Stop Buying into Your Own Excuses
Whether it's that you're "not cut out for it," or you need to check with your astrologist, or that you need to get the perfect website before launching your program or that you need another certification to have credibility or some other nonsense that strips you of your power.
Here’s what I know, deep in my soul:
Someone out there is desperately looking for YOU and YOUR way in helping them to:
Fix that marriage.
Leave that relationship.
Heal their toxic patterns
Create that course.
Lose the weight.
Launch that program.
Smash those limiting beliefs
Whatever it is you do.
Your wisdom. Your story. Your knowledge. Your experience. Your results. They’re needed right now.
You, my friend, have spent months—YEARS—sharpening your sword.
You’ve gone from good to GREAT at what you do.
So stop playing at 65%. You know you’re capable of SO much more.
Whatever you think is holding you back—the funnel, the guide, the ads, the content, the strategy, the perfect video lighting—put it aside.
Think about this:
How many thousands, or millions, of people in the world have the problem you solve? Stop right now and write down a number.
How do you think they will feel going to bed tonight without the answers YOU have?
How would their lives change if you just helped them?
How would they feel waking up if they didn't had that problem?
How will they lives be better in all areas because they've changed?
It’s your responsibility to get out of your own way.
Stand up for them. Step into your power and share your truth.
Get clear on your message. Do whatever it takes. Your commitment is always required.
Remember: What’s average to you is outstanding to others. You don’t need to get it perfect; you just need to get it done.
Step by step with consistency.
Your success is a direct reflection of your availability for discomfort.
This is where more = MORE
Make it happen my friend. Because YOU CAN.