Ruby Yau - The Healing Light, The Divine Healer

26/05/2024

30/04/2024

🌿 Blog 6: She’s Claimed By Her Man In Just Two Months After One Session 1:1 Coaching! She’s A Miracle Ruby. 🌿

Two months ago, this lady wrote to me about her dating journey:

💕“Ruby Yau, well I am on my own journey on the road of completeness and mindfulness and am struggling to trust myself and let go of doubt and fear. Current situation is with an older gentleman who has been going from hot to cold for the past year, but he's still here and I'm trying to find a balance or see if there is anything I can be doing differently to get him over the hurdle and be that irresistible goddess that he can't live without! I thought he'd fall fast but again it's been over a year. I watch your videos and they have helped to pivot me and improve my noisy mind but I feel like I'm still missing something.” 💕

She is my miracle client, a Ruby goddess. From over a year of stagnating date, she has transformed so quick and claimed by her man in just two months after one coaching session, by tweaking the root of her issue. She has secured a key 🔑 to his man’s flat. And she was introduced to his daughter and friends. She’s officially his girlfriend now after over a year long dating! 👩‍❤️‍👨 Many blessings to her! 🙏

It is a very common issue for most relationships to stall regardless of the health, duration, and stages of a relationship. If you are currently dating, in a committed relationship, or married, and would like to know how to turn your cold turkey to a hot potato, PM me to help you turn around your stagnating relationship, moving again in the right direction.

❤️ Ruby Yau - The Healing Light, The Divine Healer

14/02/2024

🌷BLOG 5: Lonely, No Man On Valentine's Day Or He Is Not Celebrating With You! 🌷

Ladies, Happy Valentine's to you and your other half! 😍👩‍❤️‍👨 I hope you are having a great sweet time getting showered by your man's love cuddling in his arms.

Don't cry 😭 feeling like a leftover if you are single or get too upset and angry😡 with your man if he is not celebrating with you.

❣️ If you are single, be your own valentine and have lots of self-love 🥰. You are the first person that you should love for most in your whole life. Spoil yourself with a good spa and full body massage or some roses 🌹 today. Get on a dating app, just show up, and start chatting with men to find new love. There are plenty of good fish in the sea out there. You might get matched with someone special today. Have fun. Also, do not compare yourself with others. I know you feel less and lonely looking at lovey-dovey couples, roses in hands, passing you today and friends posting on social media, showing off gifts and places their men took them to celebrate. You are in your own journey and enjoy wherever you are. When timing is right, that special man will pop up in your life. After all, you want the right man in your life, not rushing it through.

❣️ If your man has forgotten to celebrate it with you and no pressie this year unlike past years, don't get triggered and mad with him. Don't spoil the day. Smile ☺️, be easy going, and wish him "Happy Valentine's Day honey!". LET HIM TAKE IT FROM THERE. Sometimes, it does happen, your man gets too occupied and pressured with work or other stuff, that doesn't mean you are not his priority to celebrate it with you.

❣️ If your man is not the type who celebrates this day, be okay with it and respect him. For some men, Valentine's Day is commercialised for business reason or not something that he would like to follow the social/ cultural trend like many do because of his up bringing. As long as he shows up loving you consistently and in other ways (e.g. surprised gifts on non special days, calls you everyday, taking care of you, etc.) and both of you are happy, every day is Valentine's Day and that is the loveliest and priceless gift that he gives you. He doesn't have to declare his love for you specifically on 14 February for the sake of that one day like everyone does. 14 February does not completely define a man's love for you.

After all, 14 February is just a day chosen for cultural and commercial celebration. There isn't a need to put a pressure on yourself and your man which causes unnecessary heartbreak. It's not worth it.

Comparison and expectation is a mind problem. Stop that and you will enjoy today more regardless you celebrate it or not.

Whether you are single or in a relationship, may you be blessed with abundance of love 💘and joy ! Enjoy! 😘

09/02/2024

Happy Chinese New Year! 新年快乐 (Xīn Nián Kuài Lè) !🍊

This is the time I miss home far away from London for a reunion dinner, Tuán Nián Fàn (團年飯) with the whole family in the eve, gathering together in a lavish food banquet which is very important for the Chinese tradition.

May the powerful energy of wood Dragon 🐉 brings you happiness and new love ❤️ in this spring festival wherever you are.

01/02/2024

Ladies, exciting time!

www.rubyyau.com is coming soon.

Sign up to receive the first word when it officially goes live. 🙂

Ruby Yau - Love and Relationship Coaching

17/01/2024

Ladies, if you have the fear of abandonment in dating, meet me this Sunday, 21 January, 8p.m. GMT or 3p.m. EST for a live masterclass.
Click on the link below to sign up and receive a link to attend the live class.

Hi, The fear of abandonment is so overpowering in some of us women that it colors our interactions and dynamics with the men we're dating or in…

10/01/2024

Ladies, I will run a free class to kick off 2024, titled:

🌻 HOW CAN I OVERCOME THE NEED TO BE CHOSEN AND LIKED AND NOT BEING ABANDONED BY MEN WHILE DATING? 🌻

on Sunday, 21 January 2024, 8p.m. GMT or 3p.m. EST.

Please remember to check your local time to GMT/ EST above and save this date in your diary. Sign up the class by clicking on the link below. You will receive an invitation URL to attend the live class and listen to the recorded class after, which is available for a week.

https://forms.aweber.com/form/35/1470869435.htm #

Please come ready with your questions for Q&A.

❤️ Ruby Yau - The Healing Light, The Divine Healer

31/12/2023

This caught my attention at London Bridge train 🚆 station. It reminds me the ladies that I had coached. Let's end the year and start a new year with less tabs open and not frozen in your mind. 😂

HAPPY NEW YEAR & MANY HAPPINESS in 2024! 🎉💃♥️🥂🍾 🎊😘

26/12/2023

🍀 Blog 6: She’s anxious in dating. Not anymore. Her mind is rewired. 🍀

🪶 Hello! Thank you for answering me and sorry for the late reply! My story? I don't know if I have a specific story, but I would specify myself as an anxious attachment style. I've been working a lot with myself and nowadays my anxiety level has dropped a lot, but still I don't consider myself healed, especially when I get involved with guys who have a more avoidant style or take things more slowly.

I’m 32 years old and currently looking for a serious relationship, rather than casual or situationship. As soon as I understand that there isn’t a mutual interest, I end things and move on. 🪶

My engagement with this client started in July 2023. About 5 months taking care of her for free.

When she first came to me, she was an anxious lady 😩. She’s anxious because she’s a VERY analytical 🧐 person. She will analyse every single little detail about man she dated and judge herself. As a result, she became panic and wanted to reach out to her man and overreact on him. Very often, she wanted to control the outcome. And it led to nowhere her dates. Thanks to her hyperactive mind🧠.

Check out her transformation story below, the shift in her rewired mindset from “WHY?” to “IT IS WHAT IT IS". Only when she has accepted WHAT IS, the reality with no mind, she can naturally surrender fully to the unknown in dating and stop controlling and expecting an ideal outcome from a man. No more anxiety.

She’s doing great now, in better control of her mind. A CALM lady with gratitude in handling herself responding to man she dated.🙂

I hope to hear more good news from her some day. My pleasure for coaching her.

❤️ Ruby Yau - The Healing Light, The Divine Healer

P/S: Mei Leng @ Ruby Yau

24/12/2023

It's Christmas Eve 🎄☃️. Wrap up warm and have lots of fun wherever you are with family and friends! I love white Christmas but that never happens in London. 🙃 Snow normally comes in Feb or early Mar.

This is Regent's Street, London. Beautifully decorated, angels floating in the air. So Christmassy.

Enjoy! 😘