11/02/2022
“The Magic is in Building Great Relationships”
[Book Highlights Part 5 of 5 // The Prosperous Coach by Rich Litvin]
We’re dropping some key takeaways from Rich Litvin’s seminal work, The Prosperous Coach.
“The best way to predict the future is to create it.” - Peter Drucker
Here’s some key takeaways:
💡 Great businesses have always known that the magic is in building great relationships. Coaching is no different
💡 No sales ever took place outside of a conversation.
💡 Combine imagination with action. Leave the conversation in a context of possibility, not a context of affordability.
💡 Approach a conversation with a potential client from a place of being really, really present. Put all your attention on them and get curious. Ask questions about their life and their world. Ask about their dreams and desires, their fears, and their pain.
▪️ Find their “secret dream”—the goal behind their goal. You can only create extraordinary clients when you are willing to ask them questions that no other coach would ask. Dig deeper into their deepest dreams and their secret fears than anyone else has ever gone. Every client has a goal behind their goal.
▪️ Your job is to find out what they really, really want. Do that and they will thank you forever. And you will have all the clients you ever want
▪️ Don’t be afraid to use your intuition. Don’t be afraid to say what feels uncomfortable. Don’t be afraid to let the person in front of you acknowledge feeling uncomfortable
▪️ The more safety you create, the deeper you can go. “Would it be okay with you if I ask a question about that?”
▪️ "Instead, be willing to listen deeply and then be the first person in their lives to tell them the truth. Be real and tell the truth about how you really see their problems."
💡Slow Down
▪️ Slow down your conversations with clients and you will notice things they can’t yet see. Slow down your intake conversations with potential clients and you will create space for them to delve deeper into their lives than ever before.
▪️ Slow down the time you spend preparing for a meeting with a new client and you will think of questions that no one has ever asked them.
▪️ Slow down enough to get a sense of your client’s world before you meet them and you will be more present for them than anyone else has ever been for them."
Thanks for following this 5-part book review series for Rich Litvin’s “The Prosperous Coach”. Hope you gained some new insights.
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