Reiki Love & Light

17/06/2026

Do you ever find yourself people-pleasing to keep the peace, overfunctioning to avoid rejection , or holding yourself back from expressing your authentic unapologetic truth because deep down your terrified that speaking your truth will alienate you from those closet to you?,

If you’ve answered yes to any or all three you maybe caught up in the “GoodGirl” role.

Many of us learned to be the “good girl” from childhood.

We received the message both overtly and covertly that being kind, agreeable, shrinking ourselves kept us safe, loved and accepted.

This was an intelligent survival strategy we needed back then.

But as women now, we are unaware that this outdated pattern is still running in the background of our lives impacting how we relate to ourselves and life.

What served us as little girls the, is now limiting us.

The Good Girl pattern can disconnect us from our personal power, erode our sense of self worth and limit us from true authentic expression.

And there is a huge cost to living like this

Exhaustion.

Resentment.

Feeling disconnected from who we truly are.

Self erasure

As girls we were fed a lie that we need to earn love and self worth by being Good and serving every else.

But the truth is

You are innately worthy, enough and loveable,

Reclaiming your personal power starts with awareness. With recognising the old patterns and reminding yourself that you no longer have to show up in the old familiar way.

Now you get to choose something different.

The opportunity to choose yourself first,

Where you begin showing up for yourself from a place unapologetic authenticity, self love and boundaries you can begin to rebuild your life with self trust and self esteem.

This is the work I do with women, guiding them to begin the journey of unraveling the old survival strategies, to reveal the authentic woman beneath.

If you’re ready to stop being the “good girl” and start being the powerful woman you were born to be, I’d love to support you on that journey.

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10/06/2026

“You can be a deeply caring person and still choose yourself first”

I created 21 Days of Devotion to support in reconnecting to yourself as the most important person in your life.

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09/06/2026

09/06/2026

You deserve to Receive too💕

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08/06/2026

You deserve to be chosen Download my 21 Days Of Self Devotion and start your journey to choosing you first

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08/06/2026

If I were to ask you what does self devotion mean to you what would your answer be.

For me my most favourite definition is : Self Devotion is a deep holistic commitment to oneself.

“It involves a dedicated ongoing practise of nurturing, honouring and prioritising one's entire being, body, mind and sprit.

Devotion is love made consistent.”

I love this definition. It feels warm exspansive and comforting.

I get a full body Yes.

Some of the women I speak with in my work tell me that they are starting to recognise that they are overwhelmed and overburdened with life. They feel pressure from all the they desire change but don’t have a clear roadmap of how to change their dynamic.

Other women share that they are excited about the prospect of creating a life where they prioritise their needs first.

And for some women the idea of living a You First Woman reality of self prioritisation it feels unattainable not possible for them.

Women have been conditioned to put the needs of everyone before their own, this dynamic leads to overfunctioning self abandonment, disconnection from one’s authentic self.

This way of being serves no one.

It’s time for women to receive more, to be well resourced, to thrive and not merely survive.

And that begins when women are supported to prioritise their needs first.

Filing your cup to overflow and giving from that place.

This is why I created 21 Days Of Self Devotion as your entry point, to help women reconnect with themselves again, learn to prioritise their needs First and become the love of their own lives.💕

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04/06/2026

A question I invite you to sit with today and ponder on.

“What part of me am I ready to welcome home?”

Maybe it’s the bold version of you who used to speak unapologetically without second-guessing every word.

Maybe it’s the creative one who got told she was too much, that her ideas were unrealistic.

Maybe it’s the dreamer the one who believed deeply that something different was possible for her life.

And that anything is possible.

She didn’t disappear.

She’s been here all along, waiting patiently, hoping that one day you would come back for her.

You don’t have to reclaim everything at once.

That wouldn’t even be possible.

Maybe it’s the part that is deeply sensitive but was shamed so she chose to hide this part of herself.

Just start with one part.

One small yes to yourself.

One moment of choosing you entirely.

Something that fills you up and feels joyous nourishing and expansive to your soul.

That’s how the journey back to your authentic self begins.

I would absolutely love to hear what that first act of choosing you first looks like.

📝Grab a journal and allow yourself to unleash what has been lurking just beneath the surface of your everyday reality, you may surprise yourself.