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Affinity personal introduction agency Affinity is a premium introduction service for young or retired professionals. Joining us at Affinity is very straightforward. It’s as simple as that.

Affinity was founded in 1999 to provide a select introduction service for professional, executive, creative and business people throughout the South of England. Since then we have created over 20,000 matches resulting in countless permanent relationships and many marriages. We work with our clients in complete confidentiality to provide a personal matching service tailored to your requirements. We offer three levels of service, ranging from our Standard matching with our own members, through Premium with priority matching to new joiners, to Affinity Focus – our top level of service. At the Standard and Premium levels we offer unlimited matches, with guaranteed minima over the membership period. Affinity Focus, as the name suggests, is a targeted and bespoke service, personalised to your individual requirements and giving you as much personal attention as you need. For Focus members we will use appropriate media to advertise on your behalf; then we will vet the responses so that we present you with the right sort of person for your wishes. The emphasis with a Focus membership is on quality rather than quantity of matches. Affinity International Membership serves our members who live abroad, either part-time or full-time, and we are happy to take on members throughout Europe and further afield, especially those who would like to meet a British partner. When you join Affinity you will receive several benefits, including free lifetime membership of our partner dining and events organisation; the option of a professional photo shoot at your own home to optimise your image and personal reviews of your progress. We meet all members in person and we will come to your own home, your business place or a mutually convenient location. We will complete the questionnaire together; decide together which level of membership is most suitable for you; take a photograph, or book you for a professional photo session; and finally take payment. Your joining fee is the only payment we take for matching throughout your membership. There are no monthly charges or charges per match made. There is no need for you to come to our offices, unless you want to. During your membership we will be in regular contact with you by phone and email to progress your matching and receive your feedback.

We are so happy to receive the lovely news of yet another 2026 wedding.  From P and J - 'Thank you so much for introduci...
12/08/2026

We are so happy to receive the lovely news of yet another 2026 wedding. From P and J - 'Thank you so much for introducing us last year and for the exciting new life this has given us together'. We wish them all the best for a very happy future.

Very many congratulations to our clients Andy and Sholpan who were married a week ago. Hooray!!
27/05/2026

Very many congratulations to our clients Andy and Sholpan who were married a week ago. Hooray!!

06/04/2026

Quote of the day by Leo Tolstoy: 'What counts in making a happy marriage is not how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility' - A life lesson on handling differences in relationships by the legendary Russian author

15/01/2026

Time for a bit of firm encouragement. 🙂 There are countless opportunities for distraction: phones, TV, the internet, work, over-committing to activities at church or with friends... the list goes on. Everything and everyone is fighting for your attention.

Too often, the one who needs and deserves your attention most is the one who loses the fight. That needs to stop.

We must make building emotional intimacy in our marriages a priority. We must make time and take time to be friends. Otherwise, we risk losing closeness as we go from task to task, from one distraction to another. We don't naturally drift toward health in this area, we drift toward dysfunction. We must be intentional!

Make sure you're spending quality time with your spouse! Here are some tangible ideas to get you started:

1) Make dates happen.
Why not schedule standing appointments with each other on your calendar? Block out time and block out distractions. It doesn't have to be elaborate or expensive to be edifying.

2) Have meaningful conversations.
When you are together, put phones away and talk about important things. Talk about Jesus. What has God put on your heart? What are you reading and learning from the Bible? What are you dreaming about? So many times we forget to articulate the most important things on our minds. Ask probing questions and go further in your conversations.

3) Get out of the house.
Sometimes a coffee or ice cream date is just the trick. Turn off the TV and get out of the house spontaneously. Some of your best moments will happen when you're spontaneous and have no agenda other than being together.

Challenge: TAG your spouse below so they see this. Then, keep each other accountable for MAKING quality time a priority in your marriage! You'll never regret it.

Keep fighting fiercely, friends.
Ryan & Selena

16/12/2025

Psychotherapist Ray Cruise discusses how to navigate the festive season as a couple and how counselling can help.

We have over 25 years of experience of bringing together single people in relationships, and yes it is far easier to mat...
10/11/2025

We have over 25 years of experience of bringing together single people in relationships, and yes it is far easier to match an older man with a younger woman, even if she is just a year or two younger. It is actually quite rare to meet men who are willing or even want to meet an older woman. That's tough on women who look good for their years and have taken care of themselves, but this is human nature. The most common and successful age gap in our experience is a modest one of perhaps 2-7 years, with the man being older.

1. Men live longer if they have a younger partner.

We certainly agree that intentional dating is on the rise. There are all sorts of reasons but generally clients are fed ...
28/07/2025

We certainly agree that intentional dating is on the rise. There are all sorts of reasons but generally clients are fed up with meeting dates who are not on the same wave length and just thinking about short-term amusement.

The Rise of Intentional Dating 💘

Gone are the days of dating just to “see what happens.” More and more people are choosing to date with purpose — seeking real connection, shared values, and long-term potential. This shift is what we call intentional dating, and it’s changing everything.

Intentional dating means:
✔️ Knowing what you want
✔️ Valuing quality over quantity
✔️ Prioritising emotional availability and compatibility
✔️ Focusing on meaningful conversations and shared goals

It’s not about rushing into a relationship — it’s about slowing down and being clear about what matters. Whether it’s emotional safety, future plans, or how you spend your Sunday mornings, intentional daters are showing up with clarity and openness.

02/07/2025

Bumble has announced plans to lay off about 240 employees, roughly 30% of its workforce. The dating app disclosed this decision in a securities filing this week, citing a need to realign its operations and focus on strategic priorities.

17/04/2025

What goes around comes around. Decades on, methods have changed and improved for personal introduction agencies, but still today people appreciate the personal touch.

14/02/2025

Wishing everyone a very happy St Valentine's Day. We hope you that you have love, friendship, companionship and romance in your life. If you are searching for these things, then call. Make a happier life for yourself❤️❤️❤️

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