05/06/2026
๐ง ๐๐๐ง๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
I am wondering though, is this about delegation really? The real issue is that being needed feels good. When people come to us for answers, advice, decisions, or problem-solving, it reinforces something powerful: Our sense of value. We feel useful, important and in control. Over time, this can create an invisible trap because the leader becomes the centre of everything and the team becomes increasingly dependent.
As a result, decisions might slow down, ownership decreases and frustration grows on both sides.
Ironically, the very leaders who want empowered teams may unintentionally be preventing them from emerging.
One of the most difficult transitions in leadership is moving from being the person who has the answers to being the person who develops othersโ ability to find them.
That requires a shift in identity.
From:
๐ โI am valuable because I solve problems.โ
To:
๐ โI am valuable because I help others solve problems.โ
The first creates dependence while the second creates capability.
๐ง ๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐๐๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐๐๐ฅ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐, ๐ข๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ญ๐๐๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐จ๐จ๐ฆ.