20/07/2026
I have been seeing a lot of posts about women feeling invisible over 50. I have been thinking about this a lot. It's troubling. Women leaders over 50 have experience, expertise and incredible insight.
As someone who has been coaching women leaders for 20 years, I am acutely aware that the women I coach, deal with bias every day. From small comments or assumptions, to large very visible blockers to their career progression. I could write a long list of personal examples from the last week alone!
The intersectional bias that so many women over 50 experience is very real.
For me though, it's played out a little differently. And I thought I would share my experience, as I would love to know what other women over 50 are seeing.
When I was first working as an executive coach and leadership development facilitator, my peers were middle-aged white men, with grey hair and grey suits. I was 20 years younger, blonde and female. So many times it was assumed I was there to bring tea, write the notes or assist. When, in fact, I was the specialist there to lead the session.
As a woman of 55, what I notice now, when I arrive in a meeting, or walk into the room, is that the authority gap has shrunk.
People ask my advice, accept my expertise and trust my judgement.
It might be that my manner has changed, and that I have 20 years of experience under my belt, but I think this shift is much more about perception.
This photo is me off to a meeting in London in the boiling heat last week, feeling every day of my age! I may have more authority but my thermostat is definitely broken 😊
I would love to know:
- What is your experience of the authority gap as a women over 50?
- Have you noticed more or less gender bias as you have aged?
- How can we celebrate the expertise, power and wisdom of women over 50?