08/10/2026
Clients say things like ‘Oh well, I’m not sure why I was letting it get to me so much - this is just another challenge like all the other challenges I deal with all day every day’ - because we’ve loosened their grip on your emotional wellbeing.
A note for balance: there is sometimes no rhyme or reason why we find a particular work person tricky. This is not blaming or shaming ‘tricky people’ as what is one person’s star performer can sometimes be someone else’s complete nightmare. I’m very sure I’ve been tricky before now. So have all of us. This is about focusing on the particular chemistry that happens between you and your tricky person to help it feel manageable and way less stressful.
I’m calling coaching that deals with this kind of challenge ‘Unshakeable’ and more details of how Unshakeable can actually help you feel much less stressed are in a handy doc I’ve pulled together. Just comment UNSHAKEABLE below and I’ll send you it.
P.S. have you downloaded my Real Wheel of Work Relationships? If you are currently in this tricky spot and haven’t done, it will give you a few new ways of approaching how you’re feeling and what to do about that. Comment REAL WHEEL below.