20/11/2023
*📍DO NOT ASSUME 📍*
_©️ *Assumption kills like poison. Any small thing, we assume, thinking others are doing what we think not what we validate by personal eye witness.*_
_©️ *Someone doesn't pick our calls, we assume he or she is avoiding us or is up to something.*_
_©️ *Someone doesn't give us the money we asked for, we assume he or she is stingy and wicked...*_
_©️ *Someone doesn't call, hangout or visit you as he/she usually does. We assume they are no longer caring or intimate again, then comes the anger and repulsive attitude towards them.*_
_©️ *We never care to know and understand that issues of life can set in to choke them. Also that, the issues of life are diverse in nature, not the same*._
_©️ *Once we are turned or rejected, we start assuming. Power of verification of issues is more important and significant for more connection with healthy people to get to the top.*_
_©️ *We don't put into consideration what the other party might be going through or experiencing. Always have it at the back of your mind that, other people might not be in pleasant mood like you.*_
_©️ *The guy that promised you money might get into a financial situation a day before he's supposed to give you the money.*_
*_✓ The person that didn't pick your call was probably in a meeting or busy at that moment, or even sleeping. He might not be in the mood to take your call._*
*_✓ We just assume instead because it’s easier and it tends to make us the good guys._*
*_✓ Give someone benefit of the doubt, make an excuse for that person. It's not always as it seems in your mind and head._*
*_Maintain relationships with people. What you EXPECT will COME towards you and what you don't EXPECT will RUN away from you._*
*_✓ It is childish and immature to pick offence at every provocation or perceived wrongness and then start keeping grudges as a result. Grow above it._*
*_✓ Someone did not invite you for their wedding, you pick offence with them._*
*_✓ Someone didn't wish you happy birthday, you pick offence with the person._*
*_✓ They didn't like your Facebook post, you pick offence._*
*_✓ They didn't support you in a disagreement you had with someone, you pick offence with them._*
*_✓ They are junior and they have the audacity to talk or oppose your opinion. You pick offence with them._*
*_✓ They said No to your request, you pick offence and malice starts._*
*_✓ You asked them for money, they said they didn't have it, you pick offence with them._*
*_✓ You are even keeping a record of people who brought gifts to your wedding, those who blessed you because you helped them, you have the list of those who give you gifts or money always among your junior colleague, so you can know who to pick offence with._*
*NOTE:*
_@ *Everyone has his/ her battle that someone is not aware of.*_
_@ *Those who you need help from are also looking for help.*_
_@ *Not everything is personal and intentional.*_
_@ *Not everyone hates you.*_
_@ *Sometimes, people are just caught up with their own lives, struggles, human weaknesses, and limitations.*_
_@ *Learn how to manage being disappointed by people and still be on talking terms with them. It will save you a lot of UNNECESSARY grudges and save you some FRIENDSHIPS you may need in the future.*_
*_Grow above offences, grow with offences, grow ignoring offences, and stop hurting yourself._*
_*You will FINISH WELL IN JESUS NAME AMEN
