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Helping late-identified autistic adults create a life that actually works - without the burnout 🧡
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Late-diagnosed autistic and advocate for neurodivergent adults

I thought the hard part would be getting the diagnosis.Turns out the hard part came after.The relief was real. But so wa...
25/08/2026

I thought the hard part would be getting the diagnosis.

Turns out the hard part came after.

The relief was real. But so was the grief that showed up a few days later, and the anger, and the strange feeling of reading back through my whole life with a new pair of glasses on.

Nobody warned me about any of that. There was no leaflet for it. No one sat me down and said, by the way, this next bit is going to be a lot.

I was two weeks short of my fiftieth birthday.

I've spent the years since working with other late-diagnosed and self-identified autistic women, and I hear the same thing again and again: the diagnosis made sense of everything, and it didn't make anything easier. Not at first.

So I'm running a live session for exactly that part. The after.
We'll talk about why relief and grief turn up together. Why so many of us feel more autistic after we find out, not less. What years of masking quietly cost. And what it looks like to start supporting yourself differently, without having to overhaul your whole life at once.

Thursday 27 August, 11am BST. Come with your camera off. Say nothing if you'd rather. There's a replay if you can't make it live.

It's ÂŁ17, and registration closes when we begin.

If any of this is landing, it's for you. Link in the comments.

24/08/2026

After the Diagnosis is a webinar for you:
If you’ve been diagnosed autistic
If you haven’t been diagnosed but suspect that you are

Either way if you are struggling with the worsening of symptoms that happens after the realisation, with a roller coaster of emotions, have questions about unmasking, this is for you!

Comment AFTER, and I’ll send the details straight over to your inbox or find the link in my bio.

24/08/2026

I never set out to build this. I just started telling the truth about my own late diagnosis, and the messages started arriving.

Woman after woman, all saying some version of the same thing: I thought it was just me. That's the part that still gets me. So many of us spent decades believing we were the only one struggling this quietly, this hard, behind a face that looked completely fine.

You are not the only one. And you were never the problem.

After the Diagnosis is the space I wish someone had handed me two years ago, when I had the answer but none of the map. Whether your diagnosis is official or you're just starting to wonder, you're welcome exactly as you are.

Live on Zoom, Thursday 27th August, 11am BST. The replay will be available afterwards to all who register.

Comment AFTER and I'll send you everything you need to know or click the link below.

21/08/2026

For years, I wondered why everything felt harder for me. Socializing drained me. Bright lights and loud noises overwhelmed me. Routines brought me peace, but too much change felt unbearable. I thought I just needed to “toughen up.”

Then I learned I’m autistic. And suddenly… I wasn’t broken. I was understood.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “What’s wrong with me?”—you’re not alone.

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21/08/2026

The hard part isn’t hearing the words “you’re autistic.” It’s everything that comes after them.

And that’s the part almost no one prepares you for. There’s no session at the end of an assessment that walks you through the grief, the relief, the anger, and the strange disorientation of your whole life rearranging itself at once. You get a report and a “good luck,” and you’re left to make sense of it completely alone.

I did it alone. I don’t think you should have to.

That’s why I’m running After the Diagnosis. A live 30-minute session on Zoom, Thursday 27th August at 11am BST, with time for your questions afterwards. It’s for anyone standing in that “now what” place, whether your diagnosis is recent or years behind you and still not fully processed.

Spaces are limited and I’d genuinely love to see you there.

Comment AFTER and I’ll send you all the details.

17/08/2026

I was top of my honours classes and somehow also the “stupid blonde” of every joke. It took me decades to understand why: I didn’t get the jokes, so I played dumb instead of admitting it. That was masking. If you learned to play a role too, comment QUIZ and I’ll send you the masking styles quiz. It only takes a few minutes, is free, and can help you find a starting point to figure out how you are masking and understand what it’s costing you.

13/08/2026

For years | thought the goal was to take the mask off. I was wrong about how.

Unmasking on your own doesn't really work. Forcing it can cost you more than the mask ever did. There's an order to this, and safety has to come first, which is why I'll never just tell someone to be themselves and leave them to figure out the rest.

If you want to see where your own masking is showing up, comment QUIZ and l'il send you my free Masking Styles Quiz.

It's the first step l'd start with.

10/08/2026

I spent decades thinking I was just bad at resting.

But you can't sleep your way out of this kind of tired. The exhaustion, the burnout, the slow creep of not quite recognising yourself anymore, they aren't separate problems. They come from the same place. And the day I understood that, I finally stopped blaming myself for not recovering from something I was still doing every single day.

Part two is where I get into what actually helps, and what the research says about finding your way back. Follow so it reaches you.

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