07/03/2019
DearFriend Chapter5Episode8
I've seen a number of young ladies made terrible mistakes due to what I prefer to call "the pursuit of perfection". Hello dear, it is foolishness, to run after fantasies at the expense of reality.
"A bird at hand" they said, "is worth two in the bush". Is not a strange feeling, to automatically start noticing some other guys that appear more "fitting" for you, the moment you commit your heart to a relationship.
As a matter fact, I've listened to a number of young ladies vent out their frustrations about seeing awesome men appearing from the blues the moment they said "yes" to their men and the immediate temptations to call off their relationship just to go after these seemingly great new guys.
See dear, I know such feeling and truth be told, you are even likely to feel same, even into your marriage. But like every other feelings, develop the maturity under God to Knock it off.
As long as the earth remains, seemingly great men will keep appearing the moment you commit your heart to a relationship and I tell you the truth, you may not know how great the man you have is, until you leave him for the assumed great ones out there.
There is no such thing as "already made man" or "perfect man" every young man you meet, come raw and unrefined, it is your duty, to "wage a war "of refinement on him under God. What you have can be come your "dream man" or "fantasy" if only you are ready to commit your whole heart to him.
Enough of the pursuit after glitters, polish what you have, and it will even generate greater glitters than you could ever imagine. Once again, your bird at hand, is worth more than the seemingly great hundreds roaming the wild.
Recieve grace, to commit your heart wholly to your choice man in Jesus name.... Amen!!!
Good Morning.
Have a blessed Thursday.
