21/02/2026
Generally, I don’t give unsolicited advice because people often don’t value what they didn’t ask for. In my experience, offering unsolicited advice can come across as presumptuous - almost like, “Who do you think you are to tell me what to do?”
Even when people do ask for advice, many times they’re really looking for affirmation rather than honest perspective; someone to tell them what they want to hear instead of what they need to hear.
That said, I’ve learned that timing and permission matter. Advice tends to land better when there’s openness to receive it, and when it comes from a place of genuine care rather than the need to be right. So more often than not, I try to listen first and speak later, trusting that when the moment is right, what needs to be said will be easier to hear and more likely to make a difference.