11/04/2026
I’ve lost a lot in the midst of this divorce, but what I’ve gained is insurmountable.
I still doubt myself - especially in this space where I am trying to make an impact and a career helping other women realize their worth - AND I’m the most self confident I’ve ever been.
As cliche as I am about to sound, fear will keep you from anything and everything. Fear of making the wrong decision, when you are a single mom, will keep you pushed so hard against a hard edge that it will sever you in half.
I always say it will be hard, leaving my/your marriage was HARD - and you/I didn’t make that decision to crumble on the other side because now we have to bet on ourselves.
What would you be willing to do to wake up knowing whatever comes at you, you’ll handle, manage, make the right choice?
What would it feel like to feel - I mean to the same extent as you feel overwhelm, anxiety, sadness, fear ….. absolutely sure in yourself?
I’m not there yet but I am a hell of a lot closer and this bliss is worth all the work I’ve been doing in silence, in heartbreak, in chaos.
To all the expat single moms navigating what .05% of Moms do - you are a cut above.
