DR Ireland

20/10/2021

"When I look at the people I grew up with and those of them who have strong relationships now, there seems to be absolutely no correlation with whether their parents stayed together or not. The correlation seems to be in whether their parents were able to be honest with themselves and try again, hoping for more, building better."

Lyrics on her new album explain the end of her marriage. She wonders how her son will react to hearing them

19/10/2021

Everyone who begins mediation is nervous. The Mediation Act 2017 allows for each party to have a support person with them during the mediation. At Divorce Resource, we have trained Mediation Support specialists that actively listen to the mediation without becoming emotionally involved. Having a Mediation Support specialist will help you stay calm and focused throughout the mediation process.
Find out more at https://www.divorceresource.ie/

15/10/2021

A great article about how our parents' marriages shape our relationships as adults.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tech-support/202107/how-our-parents-marriages-shape-us

The bond between our parents is as important as their individual behaviors.

14/10/2021

Is mediation right for you and your partner? Every divorce is different but you could be a candidate for mediation if:
You and your partner can negotiate in good faith.
You are willing to make your own decisions regarding your divorce.
You are capable of understanding and making financial decisions.

Divorce Resource: We can empower you with the knowledge to take control of your divorce.
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07/10/2021

Divorce Myth v Reality:
Myth: Divorce will harm my children, so I should avoid it if at all possible.

Reality: What children need most is a stable and peaceful environment. That may be with parents living together, but it can also occur when parents are living apart. The key is that the parents work together and stay present for their children.
Learn more at https://www.divorceresource.ie/

06/10/2021

Divorce Terms to Know:
Gaslighting - a form of psychological manipulation in which the perpetrator makes the victim doubt their own behaviour, memories, and sanity.

05/10/2021

Ask Divorce Resource:

My friend tells her young children that their father moved out of the house because he doesn’t love them. That is so wrong, but what do I say?

Your friend is in emotional pain, and she is sharing her pain with her children. When one parent tries to isolate the other parent from the love, respect, and presence of the children, it actually harms the children as well as the alienated parent. You might suggest your friend speak with a counselor because you know she only wants what is best for her kids and that includes a relationship with their father.

30/09/2021

Custody battles are not inevitable. The term can imply that children can be won or lost. But when partners are focused on the best interests of the children, a workable solution can be created for everyone. Developing a parenting plan together can reduce stress and tension between partners.

Our goal is to empower you to manage your own process so that the outcome reflects your needs and ultimately protects all parties.
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29/09/2021

High Conflict Divorce is cited often, particularly in cases of alleged parental alienation. But what makes it different than regular divorces, as all separations have some degree of conflict?
A high conflict divorce is more destructive, costly and complex due to the experiences and relationship dynamics that existed before the separation - such as controlling or narcissistic behaviour. It becomes an intense and lengthy battle of words between the parties. Want to avoid a high conflict divorce, and instead, reach an agreement that preserves your time, resources and sanity? Reach out to us at https://www.divorceresource.ie/.

28/09/2021

Ask Divorce Resource: My sister just became a step-mum to her new husband’s 3 kids. He tells the kids to call my sister “Mum.” Am I wrong to think that isn’t right?

Unless there is a reason why the children’s mother is not a part of their lives, it is disrespectful to her for the kids to call your sister “Mum.” Your new brother-in-law may not be aware he is trying to alienate the children from their mother. Children are often blessed to have a mother and step-mother to love them, but they can call them by different names.
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23/09/2021

Divorce Myth versus Reality -
Myth: Only women use parental alienation with the kids to punish their ex-partners.
Reality: Parental alienation is not gender specific. Both men and women use alienating behaviours with their children to isolate the other parent.

Learn more at https://www.divorceresource.ie/.

22/09/2021

Terms to Know: Parental Alienation
A mental condition in which a child allies strongly with one parent and rejects a relationship with the other parent without legitimate justification.

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