09/03/2013
Dating Rules for Women http://www.meetme.ie
Let’s face it – sometimes men suck. We all want to find “Mr. Right”, but at times, it seems there’s no such thing. There is. It just takes a little work searching the right places. Of course, once you find “Mr. Right”, you better not screw things up. Or he will become someone else’s “Mr. Right”.
1.Avoid saying the words and phrases that turn men off
For most, we want to find our soul mate. That’s what is constantly on our minds. Unfortunately, it’s not necessarily on his. You don’t even know this guy, why would you start talking about future plans? Men aren’t thinking about the future. That’s far too complex for them. They want to find a girl that they click with and can have a good time with. If that happens to turn into a long-term relationship, it’s a bonus.
The next no-no is to talk about s*x. Yes, I realize s*x is ALWAYS on a man’s mind. When he sees you, the first thing he will do is fantasize about taking you to bed. Let him fantasize. Once you start making s*xy talk with a man, his only thoughts will be what he needs to do to get you in bed. And while this may come as a surprise, men actually do not tend to date women they sleep with soon after meeting.
When You Talk About S*x Too Early (Especially Online), Guys **WILL** Think You're Easy And Treat You Accordingly.
Shut up about your problems and bad luck
Nothing, and I mean NOTHING, will turn a guy off faster than a whiny girl. We have PMS, men screw us over all the time, and the only thing other guys want is to get in our pants. Tell him about it and he’ll put you on ignore faster than you can open your tampon wrapper. Always be positive.
Barely even respond to men with no profile pic
I’ve received hundreds of emails from men with no profile pics. What are they hiding? I simply say “send me a pic first”. If he doesn’t want to send me a pic, I’m certain he’s either just trolling me or he’s far too hideous for me to even consider.
Don’t respond to rude men
You wouldn’t believe some of the emails I’ve received from men. Some of them are guys I was actually interested in. My first response to an email is usually short. Occasionally this irritates men. Since men think they’re God’s gift to women, they think we should send them a 20 page synopsis on how awesome they are. If he’s offended by your short response…..DELETE!
Don’t chase men
If you send a guy an email and he doesn’t respond – move on. It either shows he’s not interested or doesn’t have the time for you. Either way, you’re better off without him.
If you haven’t spoken to him in a while, send a short, friendly message
Maybe there’s a guy you spoke to a while back and the two of you just never found time for each other, but you still think he’s a cool guy. Send him a “hi, I was thinking of you today..” email. It’s short, sweet, and might boost his confidence!
Don’t mention you saw his profile
When he contacts you, the attention should be focused on the topic of the email. Moving on to something different can be a turn-off. Acting like you’ve memorized his profile makes you seem desperate.
Talk about the topics he brings up
He emailed you. So don’t respond to an email asking about your interest in hiking by saying that you went to the same College and it’s, like, totally awesome and stuff! He saw your profile already. I’m sure he already knows you went to the same school.
Don’t contact him initially
Let him initiate contact at first. And only respond to his messages if they’re worthy of being responded to. “Hey, you’ve got a great ass” isn’t worthy of a response. Oh, and don’t respond to his messages right away. It makes you seem desperate. He’ll wonder if you’re just sitting around waiting for some guy to contact you.
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