14/02/2020
#36 QUESTIONS
For these questions, I am referring to the person opposite you, your partner, relax and enjoy. They could be a first date. They could be someone you've been with for years but either way we are creating a stronger bond in your relationship. Please feel free to contact me if you'd like to know the story behind this. In the meantime...
1. What's your favourite film or TV show as a child and why?
2. What roles does love and affection play in your life?
By knowing this you know what form of affection they use as their body language. You can link yours. Touch, visual etc.
3. I wish I had someone I could share (blank) with...an event. What is your blank?
4. Give the person opposite you a complement. There are 7 Verbs of Love. It is interesting to see how they react. Feel free to ask me more about this :)
Stare into eachothers eyes for 3 mins. No talking :) Why, 87% of communication is not what you say but how you do it. How you walk into the room. How you smile. This wins anyone's heart with a genuine authentic person.
5. If you could wake up and have one superpower what would it be?
6. Task... One min ... tell your life story as fast as possible. Remember smile.
7. Most terrible memory? All about opening up and being a bit vulnerable.
8. I wish I had someone I could share (blank) with? This time an feeling!
9. What is true love? Says exactly what they and you are looking for. This means you start knowing you are going the same direction.
10. Name 3 things you like about your date?
11. When did you last sing to someone and why?
12. What's a perfect day for you?
13. What is your favourite animal and why?
14. What do you Value most in a friendship? Values get to the core of people. It's terrific to link these.
15. When did you last cry in front with another person & why? Opening up time.
16. Who was your first crush? Don't give to much detail. You need to leave him/her wanting more!
17. Who would you like to meet in person?
18. What is your most precious memory?
What is happening is we are building and excelling intimacy between strangers. Without even knowing you are creating a bond and trusting more. By showing your vulnerable side, you come across more genuine. As The Matchmaker I am constantly trying to get people to let down their barriers. I have found by asking these questions the fun level creates more desire, anticipation and even excitement. So enjoy, chill and have fun most of all.
19. Given the choice of anyone dead or alive to have for dinner, who would you choose and why?
20. Would you like to be famous and why?
21. What is your most treasured memory?
22. Is there something you've dreamed of doing for a long time? Why have you not done it?
23. What scares you?
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your Mother?
25. How was your childhood? Did you feel happier than most?
26. If you could change one thing about you what would it be?
27. If you had one year to live, what would you do?
28. Make 3 "we statement" about each other. "We are both sitting here feeling.
29. What was your happiest memory and why?
30. What are the top three things are your list for a partner in crime?
31. What is the most important thing you are looking for in a partner?
Tell your partner what you like about them again and why. What you are doing now is developing closeness and a bond will be growing. Remember this is fun. We are getting away from that interview feeling.
32. Who is your favourite Uncle and why? This might feel like it means nothing but you do get a feel for their values and maybe morals too.
33. Share with your partner a embarrassing moment. Ask about them!?
34. What if anything is too serious to joke about?
35. If you were to die now, what is your biggest regret that you never told someone? Why haven't you told them?
36. Share a personal problem and ask for advice on how they would solve it. Ask them what they think of your problem?
Remember we are all different so if you tell me your situation I'll send you related ones.
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