05/07/2020
Some great tips from Franc
THE CEREMONY:
The typical shaking of hands or gesture of peace shaking hands should be removed from your ceremony or service. I would sit guests every second pew in a church to prevent close contact. In a civil or humanist ceremony situation, I would move the row seating about a meter apart. I would also look into using facetime and phones to share the service if you as a couple would like to share the ceremony to close family members who may not be able to attend.
IDEA!
Make a sign or write a poem on the ceremony booklet to give messages but also keep it fun!
“PLEASE SIT EVERY SECOND PEW ,
ONE FOR ME AND ONE FOR YOU
THOUGH OUR LOVE FOR YOU IS DEEP
OUR DISTANCE WE MUST KEEP
A KISS A HUG, WE MUST SAY NO!
A WAVE AND A SMILE IS OUR NEW HELLO!” Franc
If you are having a humanist or blessing ceremony and have the chance of doing it outside, this is a perfect location, surrounded by fresh air. The guidelines at present are under 100 guests for the service or for the venue inside to be safe.
I suggest no communion at the service, this may seem drastic but safety should come first. No gathering in queues to shake hands with the couple after the service. If the couple are not getting married onsite at their venue then I suggest letting the couple get into to their transport outside the ceremony. Then guests empty from the ceremony take pictures of the couple sitting in their transport having a drink. Then off the couple go with a sign in the back window see you back at …..venue all guests follow them to their venue by car.
THE VENUE:
Speak with your wedding hotel or venue. A lot of hotels have already action plans in place and have dealt with circumstances like foot and mouth epidemics in the past. The Hotels I have been to over the past few weeks have already put sanitizing action plans in place. In my experience remaining calm and cooperative will deliver the best results for you. Couples need to remember everybody from family to friends to properties want the best for them in these difficult times.
THE DRINKS RECEPTION OR COCKTAIL HOUR:
Ensure plenty of space and furniture for people to stay spread out at the drinks reception. Please go to my blog !!!