07/11/2024
𝗪𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗪𝗢𝗥𝗦𝗧 𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗘 𝗶𝗻 𝗵𝘂𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝗵𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗱 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲.
Hi, I'm Shay Tessler, a 48-year-old who's made more relationship mistakes than I'd care to admit. 💔
I'm not perfect—far from it—but I've realized it's not just me. It feels like there is no one to work with, and we've forgotten how to connect on a deeper level. We're too quick to judge, rush to conclusions, assume the worst, and act out of past wounds instead of trying to connect and genuinely understand 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗜𝘀 𝗜𝘁 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁?
It's challenging to track everyone's sensitivities and past experiences and learn from them. We all react differently to disappointments. Some get hurt by one thing, while others get triggered by something else.
So, where do you look for a partner? Most environments are designed with an abundance of matching options. According to supply and demand, this "abundance" leaves us with little to no value. Not knowing where we are in the food chain. Creates terrible habits that do not align with who we truly are. It shapes us to the wrong social norms that make us feel easily replaceable and quickly judged. It creates disorder within us and keeps us away from our long-term objectives.
Our adaptation to "abundance" is similar to how animals adapt to their environments. For example, the Arctic fox developed white fur to blend with its snowy surroundings, and the chameleon lizard changed its skin to camouflage itself. Similarly, humans can change their attitudes and behaviors depending on their environment.
I know that controlling people's honesty and behavior is impossible. I created an environment based on science, behavioral economics, and cognitive biases to increase honesty, help individuals grow, develop better habits, and learn from their mistakes.
At the same time, it's all managed by matchmakers and professionals in the field to aim at one goal: 𝗕𝘂𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗟𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽𝘀.
I almost gave up love, hope, and the belief that there was someone for me. I feel tired, and I genuinely want to solve this problem, not just for me but for many people struggling the same way I do. How come the search for love brings more pain than love?
I decided to build Una, and being around it changed me and opened the door to more meaningful relationships than I have ever experienced in my entire life.
Here is my question to you: Suppose I find the perfect match. What is this match value with many distractions, fears, walls, differences, and misunderstandings? How do you ensure this rare opportunity stays in the long term?
These are the questions we try to answer daily, and we come closer every day.
Thank you
Learn more at getuna.ai.
Some facts:
https://positivesdating.com/research/research-online-dating-vs-traditional-dating-methods/
https://cmha.ca/news/the-importance-of-human-connection/ #:~:text=But%20connecting%20with%20others%20is,put%20our%20health%20at%20risk.
