05/08/2026
326th Samhita.....Opening New Doors!!
Dear Friends
“Disability does not defeat the indomitable human spirt of Hope, Happiness & Humaneness”. 3 individuals. 3 stories that will inspire and make your day !
Let me begin with the uncelebrated one first :
Achievement to Aims : Imagine this. You are at the peak of your life. Your corporate career is zooming. You have a loving family. You have a baritone voice like Amitabh Bacchan. A disarming smile. Handsome personality. Your dance moves can put any Bollywood hero to shame. You can sing a song for every occasion. You love organizing mega events and holding audiences together. You are a shameless sales guy who can make relentless calls to that elusive, marque customer to get that one top order. You are at ease with people – whether talking assertively to a cricketing legend or communicating through technology to thousands of team members across the globe.
Suddenly you meet with an unfortunate accident. Life turns topsy-turvy. Everything that seemed easy earlier is a chore now. Your speech is slurred. Your limbs are stiff. Your gait is slow and imbalanced. You have prolonged medical treatment that throws your life out of gear. Your corporate life is a thing of the past, a mere memory.
What do you do now ? Do you sulk and give up or stand up and rebuild your life ?
This is what the protagonist of this story, my good friend Sudhir Shetty did when faced with this life-threatening situation. He did not lose hope. He learnt to walk again - with a purpose - albeit slowly. He smiled and people smiled back at him. He never missed complimenting the ladies, how beautiful and elegant they looked. He stopped by to smell the flowers. He joined our IIMB Orators Club, worked on his slurred speech, took the feedback, reworked, actively participated in all the activities, regaled us with his film songs and became an integral part of the Orators family. Despite his physical constraints he moves forward, one step at a time, every single day to reclaim and enjoy life. He is our self-appointed club ‘birthday wisher’, never missing a single occasion to be the first to spread joy and hope.
What if some events in life have set him back in certain aspects ? He has not turned his back on life. He keeps himself busy investing in stocks, religiously attending our club meetings, paying his taxes on time (reminded us all of the 31st July tax deadline) and being the ‘official’ chutney and tea maker at home ! He is grateful to the Almighty and his dear life partner for all that he is today.
A harbinger of hope, tenacity and positivity – Sudhir’s inspiring message : “I cannot go back to my past but I can go on to new aims in life”. He does not forget to
Now for the celebrated stories :
From Wheelchair To World stage : Redefining the journey with a smile I had the privilege of watching and listening to the celebrated Wheel-chair Warrior of India, TEDx Speaker, numerous awards winner, certified happiness-coach, the ever smiling Dr. Sai Kaustuv Dashgupta (https://in.linkedin.com/in/saikaustuv) (https://www.instagram.com/saikaustuv9/?hl=en) hosted by our IIMB Orators Club during July. Glimpse of his powerful, moving talk on Creating Happiness (what I gathered, not verbatim) :
1. Turn life's challenges into leadership skills
2. Happiness is not a destination. It's a decision.
3. Disability is not always inspiring. Accept your fragility and be
original.
4. Accept your vulnerability. Your authentic self. You will be happy.
5. When one door closed, I opened a new one.
6. Real disability is about fear mindset. My list is a CAN DO list..not CANT DO.
7. NO means New Opportunity
8. When I stopped asking why me ? The Turning Point came….I am an asset. Not bechara.
9. Leadership begins with inclusion and belongingness. It is a journey to address unmet needs. Ask who is missing at the table. Inclusion is your attribute, your behaviour.
10. Don’t chase happiness. Create it.
11. Happiness comes from what I can give to others. Not ask what I can get.
12. Secret formula for HAPPINESS : CHOICE + COURGAE+COMPASSION+CONTRIBUTION
Magic of abilities : Resonating with the above is the (https://www.mitticafe.org/) Mitti Café story about Humaneness, crafted by a young social entrepreneur Ms. Alina Alam. Talking at the Leadership Conclave, 2026 she appealed :
• Disability is in our eyes. It is what we see. Change the perspective.
• People with intellectual disability like Autism work with the heart. Listen to them. Your paradigm to serve changes (as it did for Mitti Café).
• Disabled people are in lockdown for life. See purpose of life differently.
• Compassion and Courage are the magic of life in each one of us.
As Hubert H. Humphrey said "What matters is not what we have lost, but what we do with what remains."
Click the link below to read more....
https://sharadasc.com/samhita-july-2026/