Inspiring LIVES

30/11/2017

12/11/2017

HAPPINESS?
JUST UNLOAD YOUR MIND......

So far, many people have defined happiness. I am expressing my own perspective.
It is your own discretion to find it true or not.

One side there is a mature world, where everyone is seriously engaged to achieve all facilities made by men only.

The person who is seriously running to chase endless desires, is being perceived intelligent. And intelligent people get respect by all.

No doubt we are intelligent, because we are born with a developed brain. And we invent new things to facilitate ourselves & we are the final authority to prove ourselves right only.

And no higher authority is there above human being to prove the correctness of direction of our thoughts, findings & Inventions

Suppose if there were any authority above Human being, & we were ordered to delete everything from our mind because that authority doesn't find any correctness in humans' current existence... Then how would we react?

May be, in this men made world, nothing is to be taken seriously.....!

For example-
We may have confirmed happiness in the lavish facilities or costlier cars like Audi, Mercedes or Jaguar.
But the toddlers live & play on footpath, with no load of getting lavish life, don't find any happiness in any luxery car passing from the road.

And they, unknowingly, are in the state of true philosophy of life, for which most of us try a meditation.

- Raghuveer Rathore

10/10/2017

YOUR DRIVING SHOWS YOUR BEHAVIOUR -

I know it's strange, but I have been observing this identifier since I started driving.

DRiVER or RIDERS -

Type 1 - Drives fast but safe -
He is too smart & sharp, he takes care of all risks in his decision, but grow at high speed. This may be a natural strength, while he drives, his senses works and respond so promptly.
He has less chances of accident, but we are not naturally made to run more than the speed of 25 km per hour.

Type 2. - Drive fast and escape by chance -
They are the people who never learn a good driving, and they might never have met any accident, but they live with misunderstanding that they are perfect. And drives like a toss, they take a chance every second of driving or riding. But it's not necessary that we win the toss everytime. These people have low learning attitude, depend more on God & believe less on their selves. These people have no action plan, lives only with dreams.

Type 3 - Rash Drivers -
These are the people, who have to cross the way as soon as possible, they are not concerned with risk, they have less imagination power. They can't imagine the risk associated with their decisions and never think of the worst incidence, may occur on the road or in their lives. They live with absurd manner, they are less disciplined but unaware of this fact. You may check their rooms.

Type 4 - Drives Fast as soldier -
They are descipled in their life, and try to dominate others. They think that everyone is indisciplined around them and they are there to teach them. On road while driving they comment on everyone's driving and most of the time try to teach them all a lesson of driving. And to teach a lesson they take risk. They drive to reach somewhere fast as they know the value of time.
But they also ignore the risk associated with speed. It becomes their behaviour in work life.

Type 5 - Drives Slow -
They are slow drivers, they never worry about the time and distance. They believe in the story of Tortoise and Rabbit. But on expressway other speedy vehicle may hit them. So there is a risk associated with the slow speed also. These people are less risk takers. They don't even get into the little matted jobs which may have a small risk associated. But this attitude may keep them away from the good opportunities. Because for every success we will have to cross the path full of risks.

Type 6 - Drive Safe -
These people are the mix of risk taking and safe driving. They drive slow and fast as the situation and trafic. They are not stuck on certain style or perception. They do not have specific beliefs, they believe in logical and factual data. So many times they argue with others and win but lose people.

It's my personal observation, if you like to add any comment, you can.

- Raghuveer Rathore
(Motivational & Soft Skills Trainer)

28/09/2017

SAY THANKS to NEGATIVE MOTIVATORS -

I am known as a Motivational Speaker. But I usually use tough & negative words in conversation with friends, peers or anyone closer to me.
And sometimes they get incensed & irritated..
Now it's a new era, people live with masks on faces and we always wanted to be admired by everyone. So we always prefer possitive motivator arround us.

My personal observation -
I don't know it's written anywhere or not, it's my observation and also said by *Saint. Kabir*
"Nindak niyare rakhiye aangan kuti chhawaye;
Bin sabun pani bina nirmal karat subhaye"

In India, people coming from worst conditions are doing miracles.

*The force behind is,* *NEGATIVE MOTIVATION*-
Most of the IAS officers are from small towns or rural India. There may be number of reasons you always have considered.
But one & strong reason is NEGATIVE MOTIVATION.

Yes, most of them are from poor or illiterate background, and raised under the negative environment, where nobody believes to think big and if you do, you might become a character of laughter.
They are surrounded by negative motivators and this is the reason that they are left with no choice but to prove their conviction & determination to break the beliefs.
And this situation leads to a strong belief of changing their lives.
And the saying by Saint. Kabir proves the same.

So, don't get irritated by negative motivators, they are sharpening your talents and you might grow at full of your potential. Even you should always be thankful to them.

And maintain an appropriate gap with positive motivators, because you might not grow at your full potential.

- Raghuveer Rathore
(Motivational & Soft Skills Trainer)

29/08/2017

Health !
& Behavior ?
And SKILLS !
SUCCESS also?

*Break your beliefs about "Health, Wealth and Success".*

*Perceptions & Traditions.* -

One of my friend, 34 yrs, is diabetic. He is an entrepreneur. And he says that his life span may be not more than 60-65 yrs. As his busy lifestyle to create wealth won't allow him to take care of his health.

*People who broke Believes.* -
From Mahatma Gandhi to PM Modi and From Amitabh Bhachchan to Akshay kumar. Everyone started there success journey with considering Health first. And when they failed, again worked on health and came up.

Now we try to understand how working on health changes the Behaviour and Habits & ensures the Success in career, business or entrepreneurship..

*Time Management:*

*Myth*: People go gym or spend time on health, have enough time
*Truth:* People go gym, do workouts or yoga, are good time manager.
They follow the regular decepline, leave lazyness and have a count of every second.
And this routine drives them to manage time in every task and it becomes there habit.

*Stress Management*:

Stress is nothing but an attitude of looking at the circumstances. People who work on fitness, have to go through a physical pain.
And during the physical pain, we forget any mental pain. And we become tough to receive any stressful situation.
And toughness becomes our habit, as we face lot of stressful situations in profession or career.

*Quality Management:*

Nobody wants to break his own body in the gym, during workouts or during yoga. We become precise while doing exercise. Consequently, this changes our Behaviour and we become habitual to do things precisely and we start to deliver quality in profession as well.

*Patience:*

Regular gym or workout needs a lot of patience and regularity. People who work on health become patient and it becomes a habit to have patience in any task or their profession.

And we all are aware of that these all habits always drives us towards SUCCESS.

*LIVE HEALTHY, STAY WEALTHY....*

- Raghuveer Rathore

08/08/2017

EXTRAORDINARY or LUCKY

I personally met few people in their initial phase of career.
Now they are one among celebrities like, "Tarak Mehta ka ulta chasma" fame SHAILESH LODHA.

One thing unique about those people was that, they were eye catching at first sight.

He also seemed extraordinary at first sight, when I saw him addressing a huge mass at some management program, as a public speaker.

And he became my ideal in public speaking.

I could judge that he would be among successful people, very soon.
After a while I saw him on National Television.

I thought he is lucky. But as I read about his struggles & endless efforts of self-development, I realised that it is not a luck.
He made himself AN EXTRAORDINARY.

- Raghuveer Rathore

05/08/2017

GET INSPIRED BY A COMMON MAN -

We usually read or listen the story of famous personalities, celebrities & leaders.
But what about the common man?
Nobody shows interest in common man's story.
Everybody takes a breath on this planet has his own & unique kind of story.
Every common man himself is a live story.
And every common story has different twists, climaxes, thrill, action, good & bad experiences.
Every common story contains a significant & unique learnings, experiences & Inspiration.
No matter how famous he is.....
Look at the people near you, observe with open mind, their story may inspire you.

- Raghuveer Rathore

26/07/2017

WE THE TRAINERS -

We are a born changer.
We don't have that much knowledge, but we have a natural art to connect people thyself.
We are different by birth.
We think different by birth.
We are observers.
We look at the world from different perspective.
We study on human behaviour.
We talk alone.
We walk alone.
We want the change, and accordingly we live the change.
We are spiritual.
We are selfless.
We want social change.
We love listening.
We love to speak.
We believe in the power of words.
WE, THE TRAINERS, ADD VALUE IN YOUR LIFE.
WE, THE TRAINERS, are not exactly a Trainer.
WE ARE A GAME CHANGER.
WE, THE TRAINERS, ARE LIABLE FOR HUMAN KIND.

- Raghuveer Rathore

16/07/2017

CONVERSATION OF CHICKEN'S SOUL WITH HUMANS:

Dear HUMANS,

I am a Chicken's soul, I wish you a Healthy life,
I have something to say about humans, but I afraid of their sentiments & beliefs.
Because saying something about eating habits is a sensitive issue.

I am a chicken soul & I request you, please try to read this story being human with no beliefs.
- Once upon a time I was a chick, born in the family of hens

We are eaten all over the world or I can say we are born to be eaten. We are less blessed to live long.

It's a matter of our lives yaar...!!. but the humans who have us in there lunch or dinner take us as a source of protein. And then they show their muscular body & seems to be brave, and if they are told not to have nonveg, they argue that God made it for us, why we eat plants as they also breathe and finally they win argument as usual.

Who is courageous to ask humans? that who they are to decide, whom to slaughter and whom not to? God made us, let him decide, and please don't involve God in this crime. He never ordered us to be eaten by humans.

How the human can be brave who makes the mass by others' mass.

What can we do? few have beliefs, few have us just because of fashion or taste, few for Tushan and few for Muscles.

Dear human, while you have us in the meal, you have your one time food, but we sacrifice our one & only life.

I wish, we chicken were human and humans were chicken.

I know, our request has no worth yet I request humans, "Please Don't eat us" we have a blood as you have, we have eyes, nose, limbs & get pain during slaughter. We have everything like yours except "Words to express".

Please let us live........... (Chicken).

- Raghuveer Rathore