23/09/2017
Tough for parents to find the middle ground between the two extremes of everyone's a winner vs. winning is everything. Both approaches give the illusion of winning at a young age as if the result or the trophy matters. Very few kids are taught to learn, to love and trust the process, and even fewer parents can stand to watch their kids learn from failure. Winning and the illusion of winning is much easier.
The word "Winning" should not be used in a competitive context at 12&U.
You win every time you achieve or replicate something you have worked on in coaching or hitting sessions.
Competition is useful to measure where you are, trial and error, learn to solve problems, compete and work on areas of development. Winning should be low on the priority of a developing player.
Preparing now to be a "WINNER" in the future.