B**M is a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission, role-playing, restraint, and other interpersonal dynamics.[citation needed] Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing B**M, inclusion in the B**M community or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience.[citation
needed] Interest in B**M can range from one-time experimentation to a lifestyle.[citation needed]
The B**M initialism
The term B**M dates back to 1969; however, the origin of the term B**M is unclear and is believed to have been formed either from joining the term B&D (bo***ge and discipline) with S*M (sadomasochism or sa**sm and masochism), or as a compound initialism from B&D, D&S (dominance and submission), and S*M.[citation needed] Regardless of its origin, B**M is used as a catch-all phrase to include a wide range of activities, forms of interpersonal relationships, and distinct subcultures. B**M communities generally welcome anyone with a non-normative streak who identifies with the community; this may include cross-dressers, extreme body mod enthusiasts, animal players, latex or rubber aficionados, and others.[citation needed]
Unlike the usual "power neutral" relationships and play styles commonly followed by couples, activities and relationships within a B**M context are often characterized by the participants' taking on complementary, but unequal roles; thus, the idea of informed consent of both the partners becomes essential. Participants who exert sexual control over their partners are known as dominants or tops while participants who take the passive, receiving, or obedient role are known as submissives or bottoms. Individuals are also sometimes abbreviated when referred to in writing, so a dominant person may be referred to as a Dom for a man, and a Domme for a woman. Individuals who can change between top/dominant and bottom/submissive roles—whether from relationship to relationship or within a given relationship—are known as switches, though the term switch in this context is occasionally seen as derogatory and is rejected by many who might simplistically fit the definition. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/B**M
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