11/12/2024
Story story!
Holiday season is upon us and it’s important to keep in mind what’s important in our different cultures. Take a few minutes to read this story with me.
*A Lesson in African Hospitality*
It was Lisero’s first trip to his village in Shamakhokho after a long while, and he was eager to explore the vibrant culture and beautiful landscapes. His first stop was a small village known for its rich traditions and welcoming people. But little did he know, he was about to learn some valuable lessons in holiday etiquette.
The Greeting Dilemma
As he walked through the village, Lisero noticed that everyone seemed to be greeting each other with warm smiles and handshakes. He brushed past a shopkeeper with a quick nod, eager to get to his destination. Moments later, the shopkeeper called out, “Here, we take time to greet.” Embarrassed, Lisero paused to exchange a proper greeting, realizing how much it meant to the locals.
A Photo Misstep
Later, Lisero stumbled upon a group of children playing a traditional game. Excited, he pulled out his camera and began snapping pictures. One of the parents approached him, visibly uncomfortable, and said, “It’s polite to ask before taking photos of people.” Apologizing, Lisero showed the photos to the family and deleted those they didn’t want shared.
The Left-Hand Mistake
At lunch, Lisero joined a family for a communal meal. Without thinking, he reached for the shared dish with his left hand. A soft laugh rippled through the group, and an elder gently said, “In our culture, the right hand is for sharing food.” Lisero quickly switched hands, grateful for the lighthearted correction.
Respect for Elders
During the meal, Lisero enthusiastically shared his travel stories, unknowingly interrupting the elder at the table. Another guest whispered, “Let the elder speak first—it’s a sign of respect here.” Lisero nodded, letting the elder finish before chiming in, understanding the importance of honoring age and wisdom.
The Waiting Game
Finally, Lisero was invited to a community celebration that evening. He arrived promptly at 6 PM, only to find the event starting an hour later. Frustrated at first, he soon realized the delay wasn’t about time—it was about ensuring everyone felt welcome and included. He relaxed, soaking in the lively atmosphere.
By the end of the day, Lisero had learned more than just holiday etiquette. He discovered the deep values of respect, patience, and connection that made African hospitality truly special.
Happy holidays and remember not to forget what is important in your culture.
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