09/10/2024
Listen up, Alpha Men! Stop kneeling down to propose to a woman. It’s not in our African culture to do that! What exactly are you symbolizing? Begging to add value to a person who brings in little to no value?
Think about it. From the first day you said “hi,” to the first date, dating, engagement, wedding, marriage – it’s been a constant drain on your resources. And for what? So she can get bored, walk away, and take 50% of your wealth in a divorce settlement along with your kids? Women are the most costly venture you will ever undertake.
Why are you kneeling? Are you symbolizing subservience? Are you showing her that you’re ready to bow down to her whims and fancies? You’re an alpha male, not a doormat. This woman costs you money, time, and emotional energy. From the first date to the engagement ring, to the wedding and everything in between – it’s a never-ending expense.
And what does she bring to the table? Most times, it’s very little. Yet, society expects you to kneel down and beg her to accept you? It’s madness. You’re the one adding value to her life, not the other way around. You’re the one providing security, stability, and a future. She should be the one proving her worth to you, not the other way around.
Think about the financial toll. Every step of the way, you’re spending. Flowers, gifts, dinners, trips – it’s all on you. You’re expected to pay for everything, and when things go south, she’s entitled to half of what you’ve worked for, plus the kids. It’s a raw deal, and it’s time to wake up to it.
You need to re-evaluate what you’re doing. This isn’t about love; it’s about maintaining your dignity and self-respect. Stop conforming to these Westernized notions that don’t respect your value as a man. You’re not begging for her acceptance; you’re offering her an opportunity to be a part of your life. If she doesn’t see it that way, she’s not worth it.
Understand this: women are the most costly venture. They cost you emotionally, financially, and mentally. They drain your resources, and when they’re done, they walk away with half of your life’s work. Don’t put yourself in a position where you’re the one begging.
Stand tall, maintain your dignity, and let her know that being with you is a privilege, not a right. You’re the one with value. You’re the one who can provide a future. If she can’t see that without you kneeling, she’s not the one.
Stop kneeling to propose. It’s not about tradition; it’s about respect. Respect yourself enough to know your worth. If she’s worth it, she’ll see your value without you having to degrade yourself. You’re an alpha male. Act like it.
Aklahyel Goni
