23/05/2019
HAVING CONFIDENCE TO CHANGE:
Is there a part of your life where you want to make changes?
Maybe you are not happy with that part of your life and, you may even spend a great deal of your time complaining about it to anybody who will listen
So, why have you not made the necessary changes?
A little story about my friend, Joe, will help to illustrate the point.
My friend Joe is one of the few people I know that doesn’t seem to have a temper.
As long as I have known Joe, I have never seen him angry.
You might think that he is someone who puts up with poor treatment from others, but he doesn’t.
Joe has always worked as a lorry driver, delivering for various businesses and factories.
A few months back, he was delivering for a factory that he was working for at the time.
One day, there wasn’t enough time to get all the deliveries done so, he returned to the factory with some deliveries aboard the lorry.
His intention was to deliver them the next day.
The CEO wasn’t happy.
In fact, he completely lost his temper with Joe and, as we say here in Ireland:
‘He tore strips out of Joe’.
Joe kept his calm and left for the day.
That night, he gathered his thoughts and, the following morning, he handed in his notice.
He was not prepared to be spoken to in that manner.
He wasn’t angry.
He was just confident that he could get a better job and, that he deserved a better job, with better management.
He backed himself to do better.
Within a few weeks, he had found himself a better job and he is much happier for it.
You don’t have to be as bold as Joe but, if there is a part of your life that you are not happy with, you need to take action to rectify it.Maybe you need to:
Start looking for alternative employment.
Speak up to whoever you are having issues with
End a relationship
Ask somebody out
Go travelling
Only you can decide what specific changes you need to make.However, one thing that is true for all of us is that if you are unhappy with an area of your life, you need to do something to change it.
As long as you avoid making changes, you are choosing to be unhappy with that area of your life.
You don’t have to make the change as rapidly as Joe did but, like Joe, you need to have confidence in yourself. Have the confidence that you can do better, back yourself and start making those changes.