16/04/2026
Every now & then I like to look back on my life
I’m grateful for all of it
I've lived in different countries, met different people & created different versions of me, created a business that allows me to work & live on my own terms.
Some of it looked like freedom. Some of it was.
But some of it… if I’m honest… was me running.
Running from pain
Running from truth.
Running from the parts of me I hadn’t faced yet.
I’ve had moments where everything felt aligned…
and moments where nothing made sense at all.
Times I knew exactly what I wanted…
and times I built a life that looked right on the outside, but didn’t feel right on the inside.
And if I ever have children one day, I don’t want you to see me as someone who had it all figured out.
I want you to know this instead:
It’s okay to not have it all figured out.
There will be phases where you feel lost.
Where nothing is clear.
Where you question everything.
Don’t panic in those moments.
Don’t rush to fill the silence.
Sit in it. Learn from it.
That’s where your inner truth comes from.
Life will test you in ways you don’t expect, but everything is always working in your favour, even when it doesn't look like it.
You’ll meet people who feel like everything…
and you’ll lose them.
And that will hurt.
Grief is the price you pay for love.
It would be sad if it wasn’t sad.
Change is the only constant, don't resist change.
When it comes to love, im.no expert…but listen carefully.
Be open hearted, be real & be you.
Don’t confuse chaos with connection.
Choose someone who can stand next to you when things aren’t perfect.
When communication breaks down.
When emotions are messy.
When you’re not at your best.
But the respect is still there.
Choose someone who chooses all of you.
Always walk away from chaos.
Have Discernment.
Your Relationship with yourself is THE most important relationship you will ever have, prioritise that over everything (continued in comments)