15/05/2026
She Rises The Stories of Awakening & Transformation
Author: Vivian Ng
Company: VQ Beauty Aesthetic
Specialty: Skin Management & Body Contouring
Position: Founder
At 18 years old , while others were still studying in school, I was already pregnant, stepping into marriage early, and being pushed to the front line of life much sooner than expected.
I once believed I would have a complete and happy family. But the very first lesson reality gave me was loss.
On the second day following the birth of my child, my baby departed from this world permanently.
Later, I had my second child. During that pregnancy, I lived in constant fear and anxiety. After my child was born, due to epilepsy, I spent four years repeatedly traveling in and out of hospitals. Then, my youngest son was born prematurely and had to undergo surgery when he was only a few months old.
During that time, I did not break down hysterically, nor did I cry out loud. Usually, I appeared unusually calm.
But only I knew that deep inside, I had already collapsed.
During the day, I pretended everything was normal. At night, I relied on alcohol to numb myself, drifting through life in a haze—existing, but never truly standing up again.
This kind of life lasted for six whole years.
Until one day, I seriously asked myself:
Was my life really meant to be like this?
Is this why? Was my entire youth meant to be consumed this way?
In the end, I forced myself to stop and spent half a year facing myself.
It was not that the pain vanished, but I ultimately understood that if I continued to descend, no one would be able to rescue me.
Life does not become gentler just because you are a mother.
And difficulties do not automatically lessen just because you work diligently
The only person who can truly save you is yourself.
Thus I chose a harder path—raising children while building a business.
This road was even harder than I had imagined.
Busy with work during the day, taking care of family at night, and still handling clients and team issues in the early hours of the morning.
The hardest part was never physical exhaustion but human nature.
I once sincerely led my team forward, giving my trust without reservation, believing that those who worked hard together would stay together until the end.
But reality taught me a harsh lesson.
I was misunderstood, used, betrayed, and treated unfairly. Even in my hardest moments, there is the people I worked so hard to help stand up were the ones who turned around and gave me the deepest wounds.
At that moment, I truly understood:
In the adult world, not every effort will be appreciated,
and not every sincere heart will be treated kindly.
I have felt wronged, broken down, and even questioned whether it was worth continuing.
But later, I understood:
Truly strong people are not those who have never been hurt.
but those who, even after being hurt, still choose kindness and still choose to move forward.
What truly made me grow was not only the bitterness of life,
but also the wounds I experienced on the journey of entrepreneurship.
Healing is not about forgetting the past.
but about carrying your scars and still being able to live well.
Today, I am not only a mother, a wife, a beauty industry founder, and a team leader—
I am also myself.
I hope that when my children look back in the future, what they remember is not how much suffering their mother endured but the image of someone who always tried, always shined, and never gave up easily.
Looking back at that journey, not a single step was easy.
But every step made me stronger and more determined.
If the past was about being pushed by fate to grow,
Then now is the true beginning of taking control of my own life.
I am not someone who was healed.
I am someone who rebuilt herself, step by step.
Today, I have managed to balance both career and family well.
and I have become a role model in the eyes of my children.
I also want to dedicate these words to every woman who, like me, has experienced early marriage, confusion, and struggle:
Maybe life has not treated us gently.
but we can still choose—
To not lose ourselves in the routines of daily life,
and to keep our sharpness even in the storms of reality.
To become the proudest example in our children’s hearts,
and to live as our own light.
Please remember:
Life will not stop because you cry.
But you can choose to slowly stand up again.
You do not need to get better immediately,
But please never give up on moving forward.
Because one day, you will realize—
Those late nights you gritted your teeth and survived,
will all become the light that illuminates your future.
她崛起 觉醒转化的故事
作者：黄淑君
公司：VQ Beauty Aesthetic
专业：皮肤管理 & 体型管理
职位：创办人
18岁那年，别人还在校园里读书，而我已经怀孕，提前走进了婚姻，也提前被生活推到了最前线。
我曾以为，自己会拥有一个完整而幸福的家。可现实给我的第一课，却是失去。
孩子出生后的第二天，就永远离开了这个世界。
后来，我有了第二个孩子。怀孕期间，我经历了无数次提心吊胆；孩子出生后，又因为羊癫疯，整整四年反复奔波医院。再后来，小儿子提前出生，几个月大时又经历了手术。
那段时间，我没有歇斯底里地崩溃，也没有放声大哭。很多时候，我看起来异常冷静。
可只有我自己知道，我的内心，早已塌陷。
白天假装一切正常，夜里靠酒精麻痹自己，浑浑噩噩地“活着”，却从未真正站起来。
这样的日子，持续了整整六年。
直到有一天，我开始认真问自己：
我的人生，真的就只能这样吗？为什么？难道我的整个青春，就要这样被消耗掉吗？
最终，我逼自己停下来，用了整整半年时间去面对自己。
不是不痛了，而是我终于意识到——如果我一直沉下去，没有人能把我拉起来。
人生不会因为你是妈妈，就变得温柔；也不会因为你努力了，就自动减少困难。
真正能拯救你的，只有你自己。
于是，我选择了一条更难的路——一边带孩子，一边创业。
这条路，比我想象中更艰难。
白天忙工作，晚上顾家庭，凌晨还在处理客户和团队的问题。
最难的，从来都不是身体上的疲惫，而是——人心。
我曾真心带着团队一起往前走，把信任毫无保留地交出去，以为一起努力的人，就会一起走到最后。
可现实，却狠狠给了我一课。
被误解、被利用、被背叛，被不公平地对待；甚至在最困难的时候，那些你拼命扶起来的人，却转身给了你最深的一刀。
那一刻，你才真正明白：
成年人的世界里，不是所有付出都会被珍惜，不是所有真心都会被善待。
我也委屈过，崩溃过，甚至怀疑过自己，到底值不值得继续坚持。
可后来我明白了：
真正厉害的人，不是从未被伤害过，而是即使被伤害过，依然选择善良，依然选择向前。
真正让我成长的，不只是生活的苦，更是创业路上的伤。
所谓疗愈，不是忘记过去，而是带着伤，依然能够好好生活。
现在的我，不仅是妈妈，是妻子，是一名美业创办人，是团队领导者——
我更是我自己。
我希望未来，孩子们回头看时，记住的不是妈妈吃过多少苦，而是那个始终努力、始终发光、不曾轻易放弃的背影。
回头看那段路，没有一步是轻松的，但每一步，都让我更加坚定。
如果说过去，是被命运推着成长；那么现在，才是我真正开始掌控人生的起点。
我不是被治愈的人，我是一步一步，把自己重新建起来的人。
如今的我，事业与家庭都兼顾得很好，也成为了孩子们眼中的榜样。
我也想把这段话送给所有和我一样，曾经早婚、迷茫、挣扎过的女人：
也许我们没有被生活温柔以待，但我们依然可以选择——
在柴米油盐里，不失去自己；在风雨现实里，依然保留锋芒。
成为孩子心里最骄傲的榜样，活成属于自己的光。
请记住：
人生不会因为你哭泣而停下，但你可以选择，慢慢站起来。
你不需要马上变好，但请一定不要放弃继续往前走。
因为总有一天你会发现——
那些你咬牙熬过的深夜，
都很变成照亮你未来的光。
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