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Emotions Mechanics Workshop, House 4, Road 5 God'sOwn Estate Apo Extension, Abuja (2026)

Name: Emotions Mechanics Workshop
Address: House 4, Road 5 God'sOwn Estate Apo Extension, Abuja, NG
Telephone: 08102454420

26/09/2018

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16/05/2017

THE SERPENT'S HISSSSSSSSSS Matt 10:16

A mighty king once had a servant that he favoured amongst others because of his loyalty and devotion. This servant's mates grew uncomfortable with this and so they spread false stories about his duplicity and perfidy purposely to the king's hearing until the king started to distrust and hate him.

The king angrily ordered for him to be thrown into the pit where he kept his fiercest hunting dogs (these dogs were known to tear their victims to pieces on sight).

However, before the servant was thrown into the pit, he requested for 8 days respite, he claimed he needed to go pay off his debts,
write his will and appoint a guardian over his children.After a guarantor pleaded on his behalf, his request was granted.

He hurried home to fetch all the money he had left and paid a visit to the huntsman who took care of the Kings dogs. He offered him all the money in exchange for an opportunity to help him take care and feed the dogs for a week .

After a week, the king grew tired of waiting for him to return as promised, so he ordered his guards to go fetch and bind him. They called for his public ex*****on and everyone including his accusers gathered to watch the dogs devour him.

As he was tossed into the pit, the dogs, instead, ran out, wagging their tails at him and licking his face and body with affection. The King and the crowd were stunned. The innocent servant looked up to the king and said...

"I have served you with the same loyalty for the past seven years as I have shown these dogs in the past seven days and yet they spare my life, but you believe my accuser's LIES"

The King then blushed with shame.He not only removed the innocent servant from the pit, he compensated him and angrily ordered that his accusers be tossed into the pit in his place.

_YOU CAN NOT TALK YOURSELF OUT OF THE LIES THAT PEOPLE TELL AGAINST YOU, YOU CAN ONLY BEHAVE YOURSELF OUT OF THEM.

When people can't manupulate you, they resort to changing the way others percieve you through LIES. This is the SERPENT'S HISSSSSSSSSS !!!

Tomorrow I will Show you HER SLITHER

Seek only to demonstrate and never to explicate whenever people lie against you.

28/11/2016

Lovely session, lovely people, lovely products.

23/10/2016

CONFLICT RESOLUTION IN INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WORKSHOP held on 22nd October 2016 @ EMOTIONS MECHANICS WORKSHOP ABUJA.

20/10/2016

Join us, this Saturday, as we demystify the conflicts that plague our most intimate relationships. We would be exposing the essence of it all. From the wars we wage within to the spoils of the ones without. If you share something, anything meaningful with another, then this workshop is meant for you.Dating partners, married couples and family members alike, are specially invited. Call 08102454420, to register today (Limited seats available)

Participation fee: (2,000 Naira per head)

Emotions Mechanic
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EMOTIONS MECHANICS WORKSHOP.

22/09/2016

I call her MINX, my 3 year old, cotton white Japanese spitz, a feisty and playful little creature that has grown to be a vital part of my family. One thing that I have observed about Minx, though,is her funny little doggy principles.

1._ No matter what the situation might be in her food bowl, she wld always eat her MEAT FIRST. 2._No matter how small the meat is, she must always eat it FIRST.
3._No matter how imposing, colourful, tasty, or overwhelming her main meal is, MEAT!, FIRST!
4_Even if you tuck the small piece of meat away under the heap of her doggy concoction, she will dig it out, and eat it FIRST.

After eating it she will then take a short recess, come to me, waggle her tail, look up, straight into my eyes, from one side of her face, with her cute minxy gratitude look. Only after this ritual will she go back in consideration of what to do with the rest of her meal.

Every one of us have pieces of meat in our lives that we seldom take notice of, our successes, achievements, little blessings, memoirs of past fun times in relationships.They, like Gods voice is to us in times of pleasure, are like a whisper, quiet enough to elude us.Even the privilege to see,walk,talk, feel, all up to breath that is still trapped in our nostrils is strong enough to be someone's MEAT, somewhere out there.

As human beings, we have the tendency to enthrown the negative Stories, events,the hurts, pains,disappointments, regrets of our lives over the subtle & positive experiences .We obsess over them, some even define their whole lives by them.Lets all learn to EAT our meats first. David said to the philistines "I have killed a bear before, a the lion,I slew with my hands.His meat

_Focus creates state.
_Focus on the positive narratives of your life, show gratitude for them and leave God to handle the rest.
_Remember that, in heaven, the only art of Living is forgetting and forgiving (William blake)
_You have the freedom to choose that which you will or wish to focus on. Deut 30:19
_Take a piece of paper, stick it onto your fridge and write one MEAT on it every day for 2 weeks and observe the things that will begin to unfold in your life.
_Your MEAT is what is, that which you have right here and now, with you and not what you wish you were or had.

Start EATING YOUR MEAT FIRST! Today.

Emotions Mechanic
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13/09/2016

Still on Marriage, Element 2, VULNERABILITY

Will Rogers once said that we are all in "this" for a spell. Critical to our being, as relational creatures, is our need to influence others and also to have them influence us. Stimulus and change is a subtle need, to & from us. Somewhere deep inside, we desire to come under some other persons spell & we also desire for another to be taken away by ours.In One moment ,we covet alluring looks from others,and the other, we desire to see something intriguing when we look at others.

Born out of INTIMACY, VULNERABILITY in marriage is a fruit of closeness & the dept in the meaning of what we share with our spouses. We all crave 2 consistently have that look, the money, sexual stamina, the relational,parenting & communications skills & spiritual anchorage to keep our partners constantly stuck on us. Genuine depts of pleasure in marriage can never be achieved without some measure of unscathed Vulnerability. (Yielddedness or susceptibility to the influence of another)

_From being anxious that ones spouse is not yet back home to being afraid that he is on his way back home.
_From she or he makes me laugh, to she or he has become such a bore
_From he can't take his eyes off me, to he can no longer stand to look at me.
_From feeling secure to feeling insecure.
_From being tender to being harsh, from caring to indifference,from she or he turns me on, to she or he turns me off. etc

VULNERABILITY Laces them all.

Only someone, that close to us can have such extremely divergent influences on us.

ALWAYS REMEMBER, that in those times when you start getting cranky, irritable and when you feel under pressure to have your way by any means, before you start feeling that love isn't there anymore, ....know that all you are really missing is that sweet and soul satisfying VULNERABILITY that was their in the BEGINNING. Please do focus on that and on getting that back!

_Tomorrow we will be taking about ( ELEMENT 3), "INTIMACY" .Do Stay with me.

Emotions Mechanic.

13/09/2016

Still on Marriage, Element 1, ONENESS

When ever i read Ephesians 5:28 & 29 or remember phrases like, Male and female created he them, what God has put together let no man put asunder, for this reason a man shall leave his family and cleave to his wife, Bone of my bones , flesh of my flesh, it is not good for a man to be alone, better half, God sees solitary in families, and the two shall become one flesh ,and he knew his wife.This ring shall be a sign, till death do us ..

I can't help but to imagine that God sees couples like conjoined or seames twins.They twain, sharing same organs, blood, and body fluids. Imagine if one half is bitten by a venomous snake or the other is infected with Life threatening virus or indulgence .How can the other possibly escape it? When Jesus said 'I and my father are one and I am coming for my bride.I believe the level of intimacy he had in mind was stronger than this. Intimacy that is defined through identity symphysis and adept vulnerability towards one another. More like "for me to be happy, healthy, pure, fulfilled,nourished unblemished and loved, my twin, must, also , "( Eph 5:29 for no man ever yet hated his own flesh.)
Our ego, however, on a contrast, insists that we are seperate from our spouses and shows us where our own boundaries stop and where theirs begin, in body, roles, expectations and abilities.Our emotions and minds also help to reenforced this by constantly coming to our rescue whenever things are not going our way.

Let us constantly remember that as one cell diminishes, the whole, diminishes in the human body, in like manner the "HU" in any human being diminishes whenever their spouses diminishes or when they themselves diminish.

"No man is an island" we understand this better in times of terminality, When we are faced with life threatening situations. When Race, colour, possession, status, gender,religion..All of a sudden become insignificant.

_Stop viewing yourself as being seperate from your spouse, stop using words like my, me, I, mine,you, your, yours! ......try WE instead , let that begin to serve you.
_ Take responsibility to making yourself whole, secure,independent, safe for the two of you. In your own wholeness lies the strength of your union.
_See God in your union and in everything that you do, suspend all judgments.God consciousness is the oneness that you share with your spouse.
_Don't over obsess over Labels, like husband, wife, father, mother, lover,submitter,respecter.

EMBRACE ONENESS TODAY.

13/09/2016

Still on marriage:

The deeper I try to dig into this UNFAMILIAR COUNTRY, the more l battle the feeling that I shouldn't have started in first place.
This is so simply because the mystic that shrouds it can be so wide that it would take a man that has embraced true DIVINITY to fully understand what it's all about.

Take one second, to consider that time in your life that you felt so good, like you were closest to heaven,... you may discover that,...It was in MARRIAGE.

Take another split second to remember a time in your life that you felt literally closest to hell ,
hmmmm most likely ....It was also in MARRIAGE.

Ok, I know some of you may not agree with me, Let's try this.

Consider, the fattest lie you ever told anyone in your life....who did You tell it to? You told it in MARRIAGE.

Also consider the most harmless lie that ever came out of your mouth....who did you reserved that one for? ...your spouse, ..in MARRIAGE. She sure seems to house it all.The highs and the lows, the rosy and the thorny.

Another question is this: Who is the custodian of the exact mind of God on marriage?

I know, you will say it s all there in the Word of God.Clear for all to see, but it brings me to another issue "INTERPRETATION" who can truly or rightly interpret a thing without participating in that thing..more like saying you want to help two little kids to share their meat, with your teeth, without tasting some of it in the process.

Can your interpretation be totally devoid of the participation of your own ego, perception, intentions ,beliefs, predilections,mission, prejudices & values?

A GOD IDEA, plagued by contradictions,all because we try to meander through it with our
torch of forgetfulness, and in forgetfulness,
our true and divine nature and God's principles.

Tonight, I will be sharing with you on my first element of marriage, " ONENESS "

Do stay with me.

Emotions Mechanic . 08102454420

08/09/2016

Take a thought for a moment, that as you go to bed tonight, you wake up tomorrow morning on the sidewalk of a busy street, filled with strange people,speaking unknown languages,Houses with strange architectural designs lacing the streets and an unfriendly weather condition greets your awakening.

1What would be the first question that you would ask yourself?

2.What would be the first question that you would ask the first person that you speak to?

This week, I will be taking you along with me on a journey into an unfamiliar country. A country inhabited by many, an uncanny place where a few have visited and many still have intension of visiting.

I will be demystifying and running an alchemy on the institution called MARRIAGE.

I hope someone receives healing through this.

Do stay with me.

Emotions Mechanic .

27/08/2016

More important, than SEEING is "WHAT WE SEE" if we hear a friend Scream, right after peeping into a well, wouldn't we ask her the obvious question?........."What did you see?"
The secret that lines what we see is that,
this scream came, more, as a result of a dashed EXPECTATION than, as a result of what was actually seen in the well,(be it good or bad).She must have expected to see water, but then she saw something else.

Coupled with the transformative power behind our seeing, must be an unwavering ability to see with innocence, like that of little CHILDREN,
Matt:18:3, unadulterated by any underlying expectation from prior experiences.(Be Blank)

When you begin to SEE your "desired", ensure it is devoid of any quiet negative tail ender. If you SEE the tail of a mouse sticking out of a hole in your wall and you grab it. It is very uncertain that you will pull out a bird.This is what happens to us when we focus, in any little way, on the possibility of the odds.We unconsciously and subtly put that doubt in place of what we are seeing, thereby empowering it to happen, over and above
our true desire.Do not underestimate the power entertaining a small negating expectation.Do not even view it through your rear view mirror.

Which ever blossoms ultimately of the two, receives it's life from your eyes.

Tell yourself : I saw my situation and it was good, but.......... ( Remove that "but" from what you said and save yourself from a negative tail ender). No Buts !!!!!! Gen1:10

"BUT" is a hinge that binds a negating expectation to our outcomes.Matt 21:21

Avoid it like a plague.

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